It seems like we went through some major changes since I started dating. Things use to be simple enough, a sexy look, send a drink, ask for a dance. . . Then you were certain to get your interest across. Nowadays, wow, go out to the bar, you only meet young kids. So get with the technology dating, meet all kind of people, some serious, some weirdos, some kids again.... or some at the other end of the planet. Who knew being single at 40 these days could be so complicated. I am an intelligent woman, I should be able to get a good search going lol. Well I know my time will come again, or I hope so. In the meantime, good luck to every women over 40 trying to find love again.