The Female Sociopath and SEX! How I use my Beauty and Body to get what I want! Xoxo... :)Throughout History there have been stories told for thousands if not millions of years about Femfatles, and Hellish Succubus creatures and other female Demons. Woman of myth and legend who are said to have been Goddesses on earth as if sent from the Heavens above, and said to have been so seductive and beautiful yet equally just as evil and so very bad. Preying on men and Society and using their looks and charm to get what they desired. This type of portrait that has been vastly painted over the centuries of the Sociopathic/ Psychopathic woman is actually more common than you would actually think or realise. Women such as Cleopatra the legendary Queen of Ancient Egyptians fits perfectly into this image for example: She was said to be independent, beautiful, brave and a damn good ruler who went out with a bang, taking her own life and turning to Suicide before swallowing her pride and losing her Kingdom. Yet it is rumored that she killed and murdered her very own brother in the Nile because she wanted to be the one in charge, she wanted all the power. This has not been proven true or false. But it's pretty obvious really. I mean, don't you find it rather funny that her brother mysteriously died and also just happened to be next in line to become King? Cleopatra probably did this to have access to the Royal Throne and steal the title of Ruler of course.
Or the Hungarian Countess Elizabeth Bathory who took to bathing in the blood of Virgin girls, as she believed it kept her forever young. She road a horse drawn Carriage and kidnapped hundreds of girls all over the lands (mainly peasants) and took them back to her Castle grounds. There she would torture them in Dungeons and in the most horrific of ways before eventually killing them for their blood. Like something out of the movie Hostile. She did all of this without ever getting caught for over twenty years or so. Or the Mermaids of the Oceans and Sirens of the seven sea's in Greek mythology who's singing voices were said to have been so lovely to hear that Sailors and Pirates would become entranced and hypnotized and crash their ships into the rocks and drown. Or Medusa, with venomous snakes for hair...and with one brief glance into her eyes you were cold hard stone. Woman such as this have even been brought into main stream culture in mordern society, such as films like 'Jennifer's Body' starring Megan Fox. Or even in TV shows like ABC's 'Pretty Little Liars'.
You get my overall point, and even children's Fairytales have had these female figures, such as in 'Snow White and the seven Dwarfs.' The story is basically about how far one Sociopathic Queen will go to mantain her title as the fairest of them all, and just how evil she is willing to be in the process! Sociopath woman rather fictional or Historical have been around for a long time, just as much as the males.
And even though it is damn near 2014....and we are supposed to be so "modernized" and open minded these days, with accepting Gay rights and men turning into woman and having sex changes and what not. It seems that in our Society that men are STILL allowed to get away with being so much more promiscuous with multiple partners and engage in much more vulgar acts and sexual behavior than us woman.
And get away with it. Which ****** me OFF to be frank. And after the man has participated in being a "Man *****"...he can even look like the "Cool guy", "the Pla
When a woman has the same sexual appetite as a man...she's automatically known as a **** and looked down upon...retired Adult film Actress Sasha Grey anyone? Nuff said.
When a woman wants to get it on with a man with no commitment or strings attached anyone with a brain knows she is considered trashy or lower in class. And not girlfriend or wifey material...this is unfair but indeed true.
With most female Sociopaths I know...or have known. We are ladies on the streets but freak in the sheets. And have a stronger drive and hunger for sex more deeper than a regular woman who is Empathetic. I don't know if lacking a Conscience is what causes us to be more sexually active than the normal female Empath. Or if because of our aggressive motives, hunger for dominance, manipulation, control and overall power over our partners is what leads to us just not giving a **** about how many people we have to sleep with to get to the top or accomplish a goal!
Life is too short to not use what my mamma gave me, which is good looks, a wet mouth and two holes! :)
And if ya ask me...? Life is too short to be playing "Miss goodie two shoes!"
We Sociopathic girls can quickly switch it around and make our men submit to us completely...while still looking like the submissive one on the outside.
If you look at it like that, us female Sociopaths have had it relatively easy. We are more protected by society due to the traditions and old fashioned values and what is expected from men and women in a healthy and average relationship or marriage.
Imagine that for a Sociopathic woman, all her source of supply and all she really needs is a roof over her head, and money.
It is relatively easy to win that from a Empathetic man as a female Sociopath. Nobody would bat an eyelid at it. Or question anything. After all, she is doing what keeps a man happy. Offering him sex, using him for his money and connections. Getting free food and free accommodation. She is set up quite well and has herself a free "meal ticket". Like a "golden ticket"...giving her free access inside Willy Wonka's factory.
Now reverse this situation...
The Sociopath man moves in with an Empath woman, fakes his credentials, and ultimately the woman who is naive ends up paying for the man because he has successfully convinced the poor thing that he loves her. So she is the means of his support. This role of the male and female lovers is more looked down upon by society with what the female counterpart is doing because the vast majority would say It should be the otherway around.
What do we female Sociopaths do and how do we use this to our full advantage ...?
All Sociopaths in general have a high sex drive – so us females will use sex as a Tool to lure the man in, We will play victim to our pasts. Maybe even lie about being sexually abused or molested as children or make up stories to get the male to feel sorry for us. NO SHAME!
We will be looking for a rescuer (to pay for us...we will play the classic act of being the "Damsel in distress")
We will offer our lives in return and a loyal and amazing future to our male counterpart ect.
The funny and slightly sad truth is, both parties can't both be happy in the long run when it comes to dating a Sociopath in general. A man sees it as his role to provide for his partner, or at least many have been brain trained historically that this is the right thing to do. The gaslighting, can just be viewed as ‘female manipulation’. Men are grateful to have a woman that constantly demands sex and NEVER says no. Especially if it's raunchy and hardcore....
And the male counterpart feels that he has a ‘Trophy wife’ on his arm. After all us Sociopaths are charismatic, and we can pretend to get along with everyone, we will make sure to get on all of our partners friends and family's good side. And be seen as popular and well liked. When it comes to us girls and in a relationship: everyone else wants her….. and men love to have something which is seen as ‘special’, something that other people want but can't have.
So, where does it all go wrong, with the female counterpart when she is a Sociopath and why is not reported as much?
It goes wrong when the female Sociopath has got what she has been after or runs off with someone else after she has milked her partner dry. This could take a matter of months, or even years....or decade's. I know Sociopaths who have been with their victim twenty-five years or more and are still playing the game and have their partner still fooled---scary, I know! :)
Now back on topic, after the female Sociopaths victim has ran out of source supply, her true colors will began to show, or for example once she has had a child by this man. Which is the WORST ******* thing that could ever possibly happen to a man when involved or dealing with a female Sociopath!
This is a never ending living Nightmare for the man. Because she has now trapped him forever. And will use the child as a mere Tool to manipulate and control her male victim till his dying day...and he will never fully get rid of the female Sociopath. He is now tied to her for eternity.
If she has accomplished the goal of marrying this man?
...she probably will go on to her next "things to do" on her check list, and after she has most likely filed for a divorce...she will finally kick the man out of his very own home. All while keeping the house, cars, the children and everything that goes along with it! And if she is really smart and if she has done her homework well, she will also take legal action and get maintenance payments from the man as well. Behind closed doors our regular tantrums will involve swearing, shouting, intimidation and threatens. We will wear our man down until, for a quieter life, he agree with us. Interestingly, what the Female Sociopath will threatens to inflict on others is what she would find most damaging and hurtful to herself. Equally interestingly, she feels criticism and humiliation intensely, even if none is intended or given, and she will fight ferociously to defend what she sees as an attack, whether or not there is one. Sometimes we will create a threat in our mind merely to defend and excuse what we know to be our own dreadful behavior.
But nobody ob
This is the main difference between male and female Sociopaths. Society is what makes it different. Expectations within society of the male and female role. Of seeing the male as the provider, and the woman as a nurturer, after all, we know that Sociopaths can be very charismatic, conning, clever and down right cold blooded. Yet we can play the role of ’nurturer’ and ‘carer’ very well indeed.
Now the male will feel that he has nowhere to turn to, nobody to talk to about this. And no one who is on his side. Nonetheless be able to convince his friends and family how evil his ex lover truly is. After all...he has been played by a con Artist, and financially it has cost him a lot. And his "perfect woman" is now long gone, off doing her own thing without having any concern or sympathy for the pain she has thrusted upon another human being.
Society encourages this. Sad but true.
And if the male, who is upset and hurt trys to seek his revenge or get even... the female sociopath will use this against the male and play victim, he is the unstable "Bitter Ex" who won't stop stalking her. And he should get over it and move on.
It is more shocking when a woman has been conned by a male sociopath, as society sees it as unnatural. Afterall the man should be paying for the woman, treating her as a Royal Princess. So in all honesty, Sociopathic woman can hide better in Society. (Just my opinion)
The female Sociopath relies heavily on Beauty and sex as a seduction, and offering the Trophy wife status to the male Target. The female Sociopath will portray a false illusion and we can mold ourselves into your Dream girl. Which most males who are visual Creatures... and wanting to impress, buy! :)
And that my folks is how it's done. Hey, blame Society...NOT me!
P.S. Yes, I know Beauty and looks do not last forever. On the outside, I am Independent and have my own job, my own car that's paid for. And my own means of support and financial stability, and income. I do not need any man, I just play with them for fun when I am bored. Xoxoxo!