Hey

Im a SAHM with 2 kids and a husband who is worse than the kids. I spend my week cleaning up from the weekend cause my husband is such a pig. He wont even pick his own clothes up off the floor cause its "my job". Isnt that sweet. We never fight but boy do I have a lot that I would like to tell him. My kids are the best in the world. They are my best friends. I would be lost without them. I know I was born to be a SAHM. I just fit so well and im happy doing it. Now if only the romance department was as good. I dont even know what romance means anymore. Well, thats me.

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2 Responses Mar 11, 2009

watch this movie "Fireproof" it will give you a head start on what you want to save.

My heart goes out to you.I was married to the same man 25 years,and I could not get him <br />
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I have been where are!I do not believe that 99 per cent of men are the same,The only thing that I can blame it on is their mother.When they marry their wife and she is suppose to pick up where mom left off.We can talk till turn blue and nothing!The sex is nothing like it was befor children.I have talk to my doctor form time to time and the only thing she said, was go to a marriage cons.That worked for me but not for him.He passed away 2 years ago I was sad,I had a thousand lb. lifted from me.I fell younger and don't look like a scrub woman.He was never really happy,I do feel bad about that part.I was so worn out.I had alot of anger so many times.<br />
I am sorry for all you are going through.You do need a break,Go out to lunch with your girl friends.Join jym,You do meet some girls.<br />
All work,kids cooking.wash and so much more.You as a person owe your self so much.If your man does not meet your needs then,you need to reward your self.You might want to go talk to someone.I did several times and you learn so much.One thing it gives you boldness and you find out just how great you are.After a while a while you will learn,you are the best and He and your children should know they are the luckyest people in the world and with all this you can tackle the world,because you are The Woman! and you know it to be true.If you wait for a man to get you to this point he never will. I hope I have help.You are the one that has to change be cause they will most likley not.But you go girl and know you are the best and you will live up to it. let me know how you are doing!<br />
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