I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and our relationship is awesome. The only problem is his son. He never makes him do anything and he literally plays video games from the time he wakes up to the time he goes to bed. I have tried to enforce chores, playing outside and activities but he wants nothin to do with anything and his Dad thinks they are friends. He doesn't know how to parent and he is not doing his son any favors. I'm scared bcuz I love him but I would never raise my child like that.