Stepdaughter And Bm NightmareMy stepdaughter and her mother are a bloody nightmare. Drama, lies, bitching, email attacks. I am told by Stepdaughter that i cannot speak in my own home. She bursts into floods of tears and wails at the top of her voice if anyone tries to talk to her about a problem they have with her behaviour. She runs back to her mother and tells complete lies and gets the sympathy then BM starts her ridiculous claims. I have done my bit to make a relationship with the Stepdaughter (almost 18) but she just 'wants her old daddy back' - that's the unhappy one before we married. I.e. she wants him without me there. To think that I wasted my time trying to bond with her, buying her make up, lending her my clothes and helping with her terrible hair. Complete waste of time. Her brother aged 12 lives with us and we get on fine. Why can't she and her mother just go away? Tired of it all. I'm sure I will get messages from stepkids having a go at me but fgs I have tried to be non intrusive and just friendly, I don't interfere with her relationship with her father. In fact i've encouraged him to do more stuff with and for her but nothing short of me disappearing will make her happy. I think it's a pact between her and BM to get my husband back. All they are doing is throwing us closer together. Stupid people.
Tuffluck 46-50, F 4 Responses 0 Nov 7, 2012