??? What Can I Do???

I have a 12 year old step daughter that has only recently moved in with my husband and 3 other kids, 1 of whom is only 9 months old. We started off with a united front in the approach to discipline and it seems to me that he has lapsed.
My husband is not the confrontational type and I understand that it is difficult for him to try and treat her equally and correct her when needed. But I am also left in the awkward position of what to do when he doesn't correct her. Or worst yet when I say "no" to something and she deliberately waits until I'm out of the room or house to go to him and get her way.
I honestly don't mind being the bad guy, but it starting to take a toll on our relationship and its only been 4 months.
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1 Response Jan 8, 2013

You have to present a united front. Same house, same rules.