I've been married to my husband for about three years now, he's been submissive all his life and three years ago I was introduced to his world. He thinks I can be a great dom, I've tried a few things that I've read online and they worked for a few weeks, but it always fades away and we stop doing things for a while. We've tried spanking, some strap-on, doing chores as punishments, and for awards I let him satisfy me. It's never complete, its never satisfying! I like vanilla sex life but he is submissive. He never follows what I order him to do for long, even when I punish him, it only lasts for a few days max and then he would go back to the way he was.
I dunno what to do, are there any other punishments that I can use on him to make him commit to me and do everything I want! ... I dont like harsh and painful punishments.