My Strict Wife
Well, first off - my Wife made me join this group when she stumbled upon this group. Still, it feels good to be amongst people who share the same lifestyle as we do ...
We got married 10 years ago and very soon after it was clear who the boss was in our marriage. It took us a while to figure out what to do with this new-found wisdom about ourselves - she being dominant and a control freak, me being the submissive one. So, we soon came up with the idea to create a contract (which we called a 'supplement to our marriage certificate'; it actually was signed by a notary of my Wife's choice). In it, we stated that my Wife will forever have control over everything related to our marriage, finances, household, leisure time ... and you name it. And me, being the one staying home with the kids as well as doing all the house chores. Several times a month my Wife would invite some friends over (colleagues, couples, etc ...) and visit with them, serving tea and cake while she bossed me around to do chores. Not only once was I chuckled at by our visitors, especially by men. One of them actually took me aside one day, to 'set me straight', so he said. He thought it was painful for him to watch how much of a wimp my Wife wants to turn me into.
Anyways, we lived by our contract, no matter what. She is the head of our family, the boss. She has 100% control over my activities, duties and our all finances. She's the one with the last word. She knows, she's superior and she would not hesitate a second to show it to the world.
Over the years she's developed a much greater liking in her role as she met a few other dominant women in our community. Together they would exchange their thoughts and ideas and share their stories. She became utterly confident and comfortable.
I should add that she is physically very strong. She could take down any (non-athletic) man with ease, and I think she wouldn't hesitate to do so. As for me, I'm much taller then her, not really skinny, but stand no chance when it gets physical.
And physical it does get every now and then. There were those two incidents at parties, where she had a pint of beer or two, she'd get very provocative toward me. She'd start telling people how weak of a man I was, etc ... simply put, she humiliated me. She enjoyed that, utterly. Of course, I dared to speak back at her, trying to defend my male pride; I'd say 'come on, you're a woman ... I am a man ...' , or something like that. All she said was 'Oh yeah?' and next thing I knew was her squeezing my head in an enormously strong and tight headlock. She'd then proceeded to actually wrestle me in front of everyone with the result of me submitting to her, big surprise.
However, this changed through the course of the last couple of years. She doesn't seem to enjoy it as much anymore to show off her strength over me. Instead, she started to punish me. Both, verbally and physically. She never liked the idea of using punishing tools (with the exception of a belt); she has no problem using her hands, and once even her fist.
Having said all that - she is still a loving, caring and just Wife and mother. If I happen to cross the line (which is nicely drawn out in our contract), or to disobey one of her orders ... well, then she gets mad.
I love my role, even though it isn't easy sometimes, especially in public. I would not trade my place as a submissive husband with anyone in the world. And I know my Wife thinks the same way.
Thanks for letting me be part of this group.