I Want To Be More Submissive

I am submissive. My husband and I have been married for 2 years now and I think he brings it out in me as well. I find myself wanting to be more submissive every day. My husband likes this. I need him to let me be submissive in every aspect. That is where I am having trouble...getting him to be more dominant in the bedroom so I can submit myself to him completely. How can I accomplish this? I am happiest when I am serving him. I will stop what I'm doing and take care of his needs at any time. It doesn't matter if I'm cooking dinner or sound asleep. If his needs are met then mine are as well. Unfortunately, I need sex way more often than he does. :( He knows that I will never reject him he also knows how I feel about this. I don't know what to do.
onlyjareds onlyjareds
36-40, F
2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

I am in a new relationship and in the process if getting to kno w each other. He asked me point blank what I like etc and I'm still very shy when it comes to talking about sex. If he ever commands me to talk dirty no problem but for some reason I feel very uncomfortable telling him that I am very submissive. So I told him I'm willing to try anything he wants and if I don't like it I'll tell him. So far he has put his hand around my throat so exciting to see his dominance illustrated in such a way!<br />
So far so good, thank God our sex drives seem to match. <br />
All the best !

hi onlyjareds! i had an issue with this too. i am a very sexual person and i would love to have sex everyday. but my hubbys sex drive is not as high as mine. well, we were having problems because i was coming onto him practically every day, and he being an alpha male/ dominant type personality, it was a problem. he was turned off. he doesn't like women coming onto him. and truthfully i am very submissive so the solution for us was for me not to come onto him. let him have the power including when we have sex. now the sex is better than ever and the issue is solved!