What Makes Me HappyI have always been submissive to my husband. I can't explain the need I have to please him. Since the first time I met him I knew we were made for each other. Something inside of me clicked and I knew I would move mountains to make him happy. I got out of the military for him so we could get married. He stayed in because it is the man's job to provide for his family. I was more than happy to comply with whatever his decision was.
Now, I was not a mindless, brainwashed girl. I always gave him my opinion and we talk about every major decision regarding our family. I know he values my thoughts and feelings, but he will always do what is best for us as a whole. That is his job as the head of household. My job as his wife is to make sure that all his needs are met and he is in the right fr
My husband is not a demanding monster who bullies me. He is caring and appreciates everything I do for him. He loves me enough to push me to do my best in everything I do. He pushes me to my limits because he wants me to be stronger and handle things when he isn't around. To me, this is what a relationship should be about... Always giving your best to the one person you chose to spend your life with. That should be applied to every relationship, regardless of their "lifestyle."
Over the years, we've had children, lived in a foreign country, move all over the US and have been bombarded with negativity from people who don't understand our life. All of those things have made me strive to be his perfect wife. Throughout the years I've learned no one else matters. They don't do the things for me that my husband does. They aren't by my side during all the bad times. My husband is the only person I have to answer to. He is my soulmate and without him, I'm not me.
For all those reasons, I will do whatever it takes to make him happy. If that means staying up until midnight to make him four dozen cookies so he can get an extra hour of sleep, I'll do it. If it means accepting a punishment because I didn't do what I said I would, I will accept it. Any thing he needs from me I will gladly give, because I know without a doubt, he will do the same for me.