I feel my very best when I am doing things for him. I have truly given my whole being to him. when he gets home I am there with an ice cold drink and I hot plate of food. I love to know I please him in every way that I can. I feel safe knowing that he is in control of me, it is very reassuring. When we walk into parties I prefer to be behind him until I warm up to it then I will stand beside him. I submit to him but really it is me that comes out on top. because I always feel protected by him and that is all I really want.