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My Husband Is The Boss

I have always wanted a dominate husband. I met my husband two years ago and we instantly connected. He is 16 years older than me, and he is my world. We got married April 2010 and we are expecting our first baby (a girl) on April.3rd. I love being surrendered to him. He makes all the decisions and he is the man of the house. He is like a Father-figure to me too. I love him with all my heart and soul and my entire life is dedicated to him and our baby (and future babies). I hope that I can find other women who love being surrendered to their husbands because I don’t have any friends who understand the deep desire to serve my husband and the joy it brings me.
subwife88 subwife88 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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As a man, I would just like to say that this works only if the husband is a true gentleman. Be dominant, call the shots, do it, dude. <br />
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But treat her like the lovely lady she is. <br />
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You don't have to shower her with gifts,<br />
But you do have to listen to her<br />
You do have to pay attention to her (critical for a sub to get attention, they crave it)<br />
You do have to know what she likes and does not like<br />
Go ahead and push her limits a bit, but don't go overboard<br />
Know your wife and know when you are entering an area of potential abuse. If you love her, you won't get there, but be careful, just the same. <br />
Take care of yourself: expand your knowledge and intellect, take care of your body. <br />
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Love her kids. If you love her kids, she'll be putty in your arms, and other appendages.

All very wise words. Many seem to forget that a surrendered marriage is a two-way street. As much as women surrender and give ourselves up to our husbands, it's up to the man to be dominant and treat us in a feminine, firm yet not harsh manner.

I agree mostly, except I say shower her with gifts!
I don't personally understand this alternative lifestyle choice but I guess each to their own. I used to feel extremely insulted until I came upon dozens of men who want to submit to their wives! Now that would be BLISS for me!

Yep... lots of us on here. Join a few of the "experience groups" and you will find friendly and informative exchanges and a few online friends. Take care, relax, enjoy your baby and your can be real bliss.

Hello and welcome!

You will not have trouble finding others who share this belief. We are here.