Teen Mom ♥

hello there , my name is Nildaliz Rolon . Im 14 year`z old qoinq on 15 on November 15th , i came here for help . My boyfriend and I have been tlkinq lately about havinq a baby and marriaqe , I truly honestly love him with all my heart . But Im too scared to have a baby or get married because of my mom, I really wanna have a baby with him . I alway`z wanted to be a teen mom and qet married as a teen , but my mom always says its horrible beinq a teen parent , that shes qonna kick me out , and alot of other thinqs that qet me scared about it . My boyfriend ( who is 15 ] really wants to have a baby with me and qet married with mi &|+ i doo too , but my mom always stops me . my boyfriend says i can move in with him and hell buy / do anythinq for me and our baby , but the thouqht of the thinqs my mom tells me scare me . im afraid she`ll beat me or sumthinq , cuus she has before . and i called the cops on her &|+ evrythinq , so i dont know what to do . I truly honestly wanna have my own baby , but im afraid whats qonna happen durinq my preqnancy and after the babies born . &|+ the thinq that qets me thinking to is that my mom qot preqnant at 15 and had me when she was 16 &|+ i turned out qreat and spoiled . i honestly dont know what to do about my mom cause i really wanna be a teen mom with all my heart and get married with my boyfriend . any suqqestions on what i should do ? any advice ? please help me . 
Nildaliz Nildaliz
13-15, F
5 Responses Jul 13, 2010

I'm in the same position as you, I'm fourteen and my boyfriend is fifteen but I think I want to be a teen mom. I just dont know if i;m making a mistake.

dont

I'm 15 , &'nd I Am 30 Weeks , &'nd 2 Day's Pregnant I Love Being Pregnant , But Hate The Fact That People Stare At me , &'nd Always Judge Me , But That I Don't Reallt Care Cause I Never Really CVares How People Looked At Me .<br />
If You Did Or Do Get Pregnant Now Your Not Gonna Like What It Does Too You Swells Up Your Feet , Hands , &'nd Face It Sometimes Hurt's I Can Say That It's Worth It , But You Don't Wanna Grow Up As Fast As I Had Too At All Trust Me , &'nd The Babies Dad Said That He Would Do The Things That Your Boyfriend Said , but It Never Happened Of Course He's There For Me , But He Doesn't Work He Get's Arrested All The Time I Honestly Think He Will Be In Jail When I Have The Baby The Only Thing I Am Thankfull For Is Having My Family There Too Support Me .

oh dear! please do not bring your baby into a situations like that! i had my baby at 17, but luckily my mom and dad are supportive of me.. but you have to realize if you are so young.. most of the papers you have to sign or your boyfriend has to sign it'll have to be your mom or his mom/dad to sign it.. wait until you are older dear..

wait really you need to have a firm foundation or it wont work! I Know!