Hey guys. My name is Kassie. My boyfriend Joey, has decided not to partake in his sons life. It's a struggle everyday. Well here is where it started. In the beginning of my Sophomore year of high school I was dating a guy, Joey he was a senior. He was one of those guys that liked to drink and liked to get high.I'm not going to lie I loved to go out and hangout with him, it was a lot of fun. (I have not and will not ever partake in drugs) I have asked him to quit so many times but he just won't anyway. He cheated on me with another in my grade. They are still together and she was another reason he wasn't around when Ryan was first born. When I finally found out that I was pregnant I was already 4 months pregnant. Apportion for me was already out of the options first off I was so far along and 2 I just isn't for me. People were talking about me being pregnant in school, so I new that Joey knew. He never said a word to me. We talked four times in 9 months. When I finally gave birth to Ryan, Joey didn't call or come to see him. It hurt me so much because now my son is going to have to grow up without a father. my son is now 6 months and about a week ago, Joey asked me if he could see him. I dont know what to do. If I say yes then my son gets a father but someone who didn't want him at first. And called him the worst hurtful names i have ever heard. If I say no, when my son is older he will hate me. But I also don't know if I would be doing him a favor. Joey is full of broken promises. And the drugs scare me. But I feel like I must let him be in his life. Im really overwhelmed.