Baby's Dad Problems.

I was 13 when I got pregnant, 14 when I had my baby boy. (Father was 17.) We stayed together until I was 4months pregnant, then he left. He wasn't there for me or my unborn child AT ALL., but we got back together when my son was 1 month old and stayed together until he was 5 months. Even then he didn't really do anything for me or my son, but I was so 'in love' that I stayed. He got really bad on drugs and I left him for a year and a half. He didn't see our son, or pay for anything(until I filed for child support& he only payed HALF one time!) But about 1 1/2 ago we got together again, he's off drugs and is a totally different person and see's me &our son everyday. The problem is I fell out of love and don't even really want to be with him, but I want to make it work so my son can some-what have a family. Any advice?
KynnieK KynnieK
18-21, F
2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

Join the original mothers on facebook in a private and more safer group ~ add me and i can get the other members to agree then add you into our group.


It sounds to me like you are in a tough situation. The only advice I can give is that you should not get involved with anyone because of your children, you should rather be single than in a dab relationship because children pick up on that sort of thing and it affects them.

I hope for both you and your son's sake that he really has changed but even if he has you should never forget his history, drugs are very addictive and people can go back to them at any time for a multitude of reasons so I would also advise you to be careful and ensure that he is taking measures to stay off them.