I started wearing undies or going comando for women a long time ago, but it wasn't until I got back from the Middle-East that I started wearing diapers. I am not incontinent or am I. When I wear them they feel good against me. I don't have to get up to pee. So, I just go. If I am some place that has a restroom I go there. But, If not I feel confortable going wher I am. During the day I wear womens thongs and sometimes a skirt, but at night I always have my diaper on; just in case. Sometimes it is dry sometimes it is wet. Diapers mekme feel confident when I sleep. It is hard for me to find a lady that understands this. But it is my choice.