I Am a Teenage Crossdresser

Want.

By: PrincessEmma

Written on November 30th, 2008

Hi,

I am 15 and want to cross dress in privite.

I have tried to do this with my mums stuff but she isn't that fond of dresses and skirts and the ones she does have are two small...

Help, what should I do?

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28 responses

Melodie13

IF you get an allowance or earn money by helping others (cutting lawns, etc) then go to a thrift store like the Salvation Army or Goodwill. There they have dresses and skirts starting at about a dollar apiece. Most are practically new. They have private dressing rooms so you can even try them on there without being harassed by any store clerks, try it yourself.

Apr 7
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MrsJoanieBNH

Have you got any close girl friends around your age and size.. Of course the other option is to talk seriously with your mom about it. You shouldn't have to hide, and it's a male thing to think that you have to. If you sit your mom down and talk with her about your feelings, she might be willing to help and get you some of your own things.

Of course though, she is going to be concerned about your well being and your future moms are. But if you start lying about who you are, I'm going to guarantee your life is going to be very complicated. Parents are here to assist their children, to the benefit of that child. Speak with a conviction and seriousness about the ways that you feel. If you feel strongly that you feel more feminine that masculine, it only means that you like the way girls dress and would like to emulate that. It doesn't have to mean you have to be a girl full time. Societies changing, Help it along by being honest.

hugs and thanks.. We (and there are lots of us) who have gone through all of this and we only want to make it simpler for you.

Jan 23, 2012
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- Nuteen1cd
  Hi, I feel the same way he does and have recently told my best friend about it and she accepted me for who I am. I hope in the future I can go to her house and try on dresses and skirts
  
  Apr 7
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- MrsJoanieBNH
  I have a feeling that if you are a good friend with her, you keep her trusts and you share yourself honestly with her, she will see you as a dear gUrl friend and take you under her wing.. I think this is a very big trend with girls today. They see the beauty in being feminine and want to share it with you.
  
  Apr 7
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- Nuteen1cd
  Thanks I hope so too, but the biggest problem with this is I'm only 15 and I'm sure her parents wouldn't want me in her room Alone with her
  
  Apr 7
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- MrsJoanieBNH
  that is a big problem, (sounds like she has good parents). smile, perhaps if she were to bring some of her things to your house and dressed you up then introduced you to her parents as a new girl friend. :) But seriously, I don't know her parents. But as a parent, I would worry about boy/girl relations and being alone in her room. But if I had a daughter that had a friend who was like you and she explained this to me, I'd want to support you and help in any way that I could. Can she talk to her parents about you, are they worldly where they are aware and supportive of diversity, or are they closed minded. As a parent, a boy like you would not be a threat to any of my girls. And I would want to be involved in any way I could. I know this might not be the case, or even close. But it can't be ruled out until you know for sure.
  
  Apr 7
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- Nuteen1cd
  Iv never met her parents so I have no idea... As for doing it at my house I share my room with my younger brother and I never have any privacy
  
  Apr 7
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- MrsJoanieBNH
  eek! do you have any alone time? I grew up almost an only child (half brother 8 years older, was long gone when I was discovering dressing up) Maybe you could talk with her about your desires and the two of you can come up with some kind of plan. Her girl friends? Your basement? Her talking to her parents about helping a friend? (I know parents can be hard to talk to, (how about yours) It would be nice to know that you could have a "talk" with your parents so they could support you.. More and more parents are doing what is best in their children's needs. And I know first hand how hard it is to talk to your folks about this kind of thing. If you don't see them being bigoted or homophobic. They could be really good parents and want to help you.
  
  Apr 7
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- Nuteen1cd
  Well me and her did make plans to go to the mall and try on clothes, probably over te weekend or the summer. Also the only time I have alone time is when my parents and little brother so shopping... That's when I wear my mothers dresses and such
  
  Apr 7
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- MrsJoanieBNH
  I like the plan with you to going to the mall, Dressing rooms are a lot of fun with girl friends being girl friends! I remember those days, when I was your age. My mom and dad were divorced, and my mom worked, so I had the house to myself for a few hours and I would always spend them in her dresses. When years pasted and I finally admitted to her that I was transgender, she said that she had always known, as her clothing were always not the way and where she had put them, (mom was very anal about her things). I wish that you, and all kids that have our desires can talk with someone about who they are, it's part of you, it's not going away, there is nothing wrong with you, you shouldn't have to hide. I know it's hard, and kinda embarrassing. It shouldn't be. And sometimes parents are good parents and will understand. Have you ever talked with your parents about different things in life and asked for their opinions. I know as a a parent I always enjoyed it when my kids asked me questions, I would always try to give them the best answers so that they could make good choices.
  
  Apr 7
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- Nuteen1cd
  I actualy don't talk much about my personal life with my parents... I'm not sure how they would respond if I told them I'm bi or a crossdresser, I just feel like I'm in trouble every time I talk to them.
  
  Apr 7
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MrsJoanieBNH

Sammi and vplforme have the best advice. If your mom is a loving and caring mom she will try to help as best as she can. She will possibly be surprised at first, she will possibly be concerned about lots of things, as I'm sure she loves you. And if she is modern in her thinking and loves you. She will try to assist and help you how ever she can.

You / we aren't going to change back into this "normal" person that society wants us to conform to. And they have no right trying to make us. The more of us who talk about who we are and what we are with others, the easier this will be for those like us to be freer and happier with themselves. Secrets are bad. They waist time, they are lies, the harm your relationship with others. It's time we all find the courage to be who we are, especially if you are young and not involved with your own partners and children. As it will relieve the burdens that I knew when I struggled with my identity and messed up my first family and the lives they are making.

<3

Dec 26, 2011
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missjulie13

The thrift stores leading up to Halloween are your best opportunity. You may be surprised at some of the high quality clothes and underwear that can be found. Clothes that have been outgrown or considered no longer "in style" ... beautiful slips (slips are seldom worn today) ... Prom dresses - to be worn once and cast away. Tell the lady clerk you are going to a gender switch Halloween party ... You can purchase an entire wardrobe cheaply at a thrift store ... Halloween will give you cover.

Oct 11, 2011
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angiecan

Take advantage of Halloween..Its the only chance you get without raising to much suspicion. ;-)

Oct 11, 2011
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Melodie13

If your employed or get an allowance try going to Goodwill or the Salvation Army Thrift stores. There you can try them on as their dressing rooms are private. The clerks will not say anything negative to you. As far as panties buy NEW, you do not want used undies (yuck). The pantie size chart is on the back of most packaged panties.

Secondly talk to your mom. She is not the enemy, trust me. She may not understand but if you talk to her in private maybe you can arrange for some girl time at home. Girl time is when you dress at home with your moms permission and while she is at home. She will still love you, you are her son, she will protect you, just be open with her.

Oct 5, 2011
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- sherrynpantyhose2k4
  Good advice Melodie.
  
  Dec 26, 2011
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sammi11

I agree, talk to your mom.

She might be a little shocked at first - but remember she loves you.

Hugs

Sammi

Sep 23, 2011
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LapiudolceTS

Trust me, just ask your mom for her assistance and the odds are in your favor that she will help you dear.

Sep 23, 2011
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AlexisKrasivyy

I started with an old skirt too ^__^

Jul 20, 2011
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OhioSissy

The age thing is the first thing that I caught asa well???? For clothing, try thrift stores.

Jan 5, 2011
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- elsadoll
  I like thrift stores. Lots of nice womans wear. The sales lady is not going to kill you for buying a skirt.
  
  Feb 4, 2012
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- OhioSissy
  I went to a thrift store yesterday and bought myself a dress, a skirt and a pair of flats to go with my dress. Girl shopping is fun.
  
  Feb 4, 2012
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Samanthalynn101365

Hi Emma how big are you and what size are your mom's clothes. There will be a tag on the inside saying what size it is or use a tape measure to measure your self with and mark them down. Then use a online store to compare your measurements with the sizes of the clothes. I am Samantha

I have been doing this all my life so I have had a lot of experiences so just ask me what you want to know. Samanthalynn101365 is my circle if you would like to join

Jan 1, 2010
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mzdivine

Why do you say you are 15?

When your profile says 18-21?

Mar 26, 2009
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dinamicdonut

i'm 14 and i like to crossdress too (in private) the only thing i have is a skirt (i stole it from a cousin)... it feels good to finaly confess ^______^

Jan 5, 2009
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- Melodie13
  You too need to talk to your mom. Yo should never be afraid to talk to your mom about how you feel inside. Most moms do know but may deny themselves even, don't let that deter you from becoming who you are on the inside. Talk to your mom in private (your room or hers), explain you like dresses and want to explore the feminine world.
  
  Aug 2, 2012
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Jordan2Jordyn

Just try to borrow clothes btw I

am looking for a friend that is a crossdresser anyone intrested

Dec 26, 2008
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solarxmoon

if you can't go out and buy your own female clothing (I understand that could be kind of scary), try shopping online (eBay, store websites, etc.)

Dec 1, 2008
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