My girlfriend and I had our two month anniversary yesterday (12.10.12) and it was amazing. I'm glad I can make her very happy. She means everything to me in such a short period of time. We have our ups in downs with depression and so far we've been taking turns being depressed. Right now it's her turn and I hate that I am unable to give her the comfort she needs.. She tells me I have helped a lot with the words of wisdom I have provided for her. I am glad I can help, but I feel like it's not enough to turn that frown upside down, if you know what I mean. I hate to see her hurting and in pain because of things that happened in the past and emotions that come up now. She's had close people to her pass away, and we both know their in a better place, but she feels that she's being punished and I told her differently. If there is anything else I can do to support my girlfriend and make her happier and not so down, please give me some advice on what to do. I really care and it brings tears to my eyes that I might not be the greatest resource of help for her..