Im The Girl Friend Of A Mtf Tg And I Have A QuestionIf you have a supportive woman in your life who was supporting you in every way. How long would or did it take you to finally accept who you are and start living your life the way you wanted to?
I have been supporting by bf...wow...loose word. I have a real hard time not only watching the internal battle that's taking place but also himher taking his anger with the world and himself out on me. I have enought of my everyday stress without this crap. I don't understand that if everyone already knows and don't care then why doesn't heshe just ******* finish! I can't take it any more. If I throw him out he will revert back and he will never be the person he needs to be....the real him...HER! If I let him stay how long is it going to take for him to just get over what ever made up fear he has and just do it DAMN IT! I seriously don't know how long I can take this. Its been about 4 months sice he decided he wanted to do this and quit his job to do it. He has another job not but kicks in very very very little money. He helps around the house but I get that thrown in my face daily. Don't get me wrong I'm not perfect but this stress isn't making it any easier to fight my own deamns.
Please .... I'm begging you all....help me! I don't understand why he is not taking advantage of the fact that I encourage this ...need this to finish. I don't even like the him side of him anymore. I love her. She is the one I want here with me. Oh and he has no interest in sex anymore so in 3 months I have only been allowed to give him head 4 times. No sex for me no going down on me no fondling. Nothing. This all sucks. I have three children one of which I just found out is 2 mts preg and only 17. My divorce of 10 plus years was final right as we met and he moved in. Found out about the tg thing 2 months into the relationship and have supportive the entire time.
Advice please! Intervention? Let him stay and put me in a nut house or kick him out and let him deal with it?