Cheating TruckerSo. I have this problem and i just don't know what to do so let me put it out there for all you trucker wife's in the hopes that you will all give me some good feed back. Every time i bring up my driver ( whom just asked me to marry him over Christmas, I said YES) this girl that i work with always brings up her boyfriend that also drives OTR. I want to be happy for her when I hear that he is coming home, but i just can't bring myself to because HE IS MARRIED AND NOT TO HER. They sneak around to see each other and then she complains that she only gets to spend 24 hours with him during his home time because the other time is spend with his wife and kids.
From what I'm understanding he still lives with his wife and they are in no way separated. She is really a fun loving, caring person but the only thing that comes to mind when i see her is "home recking *****". I guess its different when you have had it done to you. I was the last one to know that my ex-husband was cheating on he and it took many years to overcome that hurt and my poor kids were effected as well, kids are not as resilient as we think. Since then i have always told myself that I would never leave another woman in the dark, but i don't know his wife and don't even know if it would be my place to let her in on what i know. I'm also having a hard time coming out and telling this girl how i really feel. What should I do?
He is the kind of driver that give then all a bad name.