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Dealing With A Crazy Ex Girlfriend

By: rachaelk94
Written on March 1st, 2012
So my airman was in a previous relationship with this really crazy girl, and she is trying to break us up. She started harrassing me on facbook last night. I know that he loves me, but he still continued to talk to her when we were dating, and he knows how much i dislike her. Now he's in Texas, and I have no way of contacting him telling him how i feel. I wouldn't write that in a letter either because letters are all they count on to get them through bootcamp. I'm dealing with this by myself, and i would really like some advice....
By: rachaelk94
Age: 16-17
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  • kaleebea
    kaleebea

    My soldier's ex is insane. She messaged me on facebook once and had the nerve to say "If I forgot something on the envelope to Billy's (YES, BILLY ):<) letter, will he still get it?". I told her no. Then, she messaged me the next day, calling me names and being rude, saying that she made a mistake in breaking up with him. I said oh well, and blocked her, and Bill stopped talking to her (because he thinks she's psycho as well.) The best advice is to kill her with kindness! If you are as sweet as can be it'll drive her nuts, and nothing is better than seeing that! And if that doesn't work, I'd ignore it and cut off all contact. Best of luck! (:

    Mar 11, 2012
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  • kseniyasamsonik
    kseniyasamsonik

    i have dealt with a crazy ex gf before. I basically blocked her from every thing on facebook and then i deleted my account and my boyfriend deleted his because it was not good to keep it around and he told me himself that he hates her. So you just have to trust your boyfriend . My bf's ex is crazy too. believe me, get rid of facebook because thats the place where she will find you no matter how much you delete her. btw, my bf's ex gf also has her own bf. so i was in the same situation. Just know that you are better than her. good luck :D stay strong.

    Mar 8, 2012
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    • rachaelk94
      rachaelk94

      this girl is literally crazy. she's always lying to me and feeding me false information. i know to trust my boyfriend because he wouldn't have stayed with me when he went to Texas if he didn't want things to work. i just don't know why he would continue to text her when he knows that i don't like her.

      Mar 9, 2012
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    • rachaelk94
      rachaelk94

      thanks so much for the advice! :)

      Mar 9, 2012
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    • kseniyasamsonik
      kseniyasamsonik

      your welcome :D good luck :D

      Mar 9, 2012
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    • kseniyasamsonik
      kseniyasamsonik

      oh wow. idk. he's probably telling her off or something. He still wants to be with you and you have to remember why your in this situation. you guys love each other, so hang on. every relationship has bumps in the road. this is just one of them. good luck :D

      Mar 9, 2012
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  • maggersluv
    maggersluv

    Wow! She sounds pretty crazy! It is a shame that some people have to use their time so wastefully like that. Good luck to you and your airman! He loves YOU not the psycho! ;)

    Mar 3, 2012
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  • wingwoman
    wingwoman

    I mean you can always cassually bring it up in a letter just be careful what tone you use in the letter. You can be like its weird (his x's name) has been txing me. i mean just be calm

    Mar 2, 2012
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  • riley110
    riley110

    There's always that crazy ex. Lol. My Airman's ex used to show up at places that we would go with friends (parties and such) and I would try to be polite to her because for a while they were still friends... she was always so rude! She never went so far as to try to contact me to break us up, however, we did break up over a year ago because she was manipulating his feelings for her and he was talking to her and stuff. But we got back together several months later :) Crazy how everyone seems to have to deal with this stuff at some point! Don't worry, if it's meant to be it will be, and if guys go back to previous (crazy) relationships they will quickly remember why they left!

    Mar 1, 2012
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    • rachaelk94
      rachaelk94

      this girl is literally so crazy! she has her own bf so idk why she's tryling to break us up. she obviously still cares about him, but my friend reassured me that he was the one that called me when his plane was leaving to tell me he loved me. that's pretty much all i neede to realize.

      Mar 2, 2012
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    • riley110
      riley110

      Yeah I mean the fact that he wants you to go through this with him shows that you're the important one to him. But yeah my boyfriend's ex had a new boyfriend too... the one she left him for! It was kind of like she didn't want him, but didn't want anyone else to have him.

      Mar 2, 2012
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    • rachaelk94
      rachaelk94

      that's exactly what happened to me. she left him almost a year ago, and she's telling me all of these lies. i'm so tired of her bs...

      Mar 9, 2012
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  • Alexandra227
    Alexandra227

    1. Advice: Do not be bother him, he know what you feel for him. Men dont like when girl always talks how much she loves him.

    2. Advice: More time take care about yourself.

    Mar 1, 2012
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  • wingwoman
    wingwoman

    I had the same problem when my boyfriend was in BMT just ignore her. I know its hard but its all you can do

    Mar 1, 2012
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    • rachaelk94
      rachaelk94

      yeah, it's like impossible but i will definatley be working on ignoring the issue.

      Mar 1, 2012
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