My boyfriend just got deployed and I am scared to death, he is overseas and I am a huge mess. I was there for the entire process and I had no one there to talk to, or who understood me, and I still feel the same way. Im lost, scared, I cant eat or sleep, I just need someone whos going through this or who has to give me advice : (
alwaysandforeverx0ox alwaysandforeverx0ox
18-21, F
3 Responses Jun 5, 2010

It's okay, the beginning of any change really freaks me out too. It's just like anything though, you just need to get used to the change. Just keep yourself busy and fall into a new routine. Time really does move faster than you think. And it will be over before you know it.

Thank you :( I actually just got to web chat with him one last time before he reaches his final stop, so im both happy and sad at the same time. Its the worst feeling ever trying to be strong when all I want to do is fall apart

I haven't dealt with deployment, but just try to hang in there and take it one day at a time. And use this group to vent your feelings, we've all either been there or will be in the future, so let us be your shoulder to cry on =)