I Need Help With My Situation, Please!

I was unsure if I should go to Jason's graduation but I'm SO happy I did! I had all these fears that he was going to be different, I wasn't going to recognize him, and he wouldn't love me anymore. NONE of those were true! He stood straighter and had shorter hair, but he was still the same person. If you feel your love is strong enough, then go with your first instinct to stay by him. He's really going to need you during the next 8 1/2 weeks.

Maybe you're afraid that it might be you who changes?



Don't be afraid of change. Change it is the undercurrent of each one of our lives. Change calls the tune we all dance to. Don't stress over it ... don't fight the winds of change. Instead, turn your back to it and spread your wings and see where it takes you.



Or not.

Heyyy :)) Time will definately go by alot faster than you think, just keep yourself busy! Right now its going to be hard because he just left so adjusting to everything without him isnt easy, but it'll get better! Especially when the letters start coming... trustt me, best feeling :) and phone calls, but dont expect phone calls every weekend because it all depends on their T.Is and some are really, really mean, like some dont allow phone calls alot and when they do, its a very short period of time. My boyfriend didn't get calls every weekend and when he did, it was only 10 mins and he couldnt always call because he wanted to call his family also. Most calls are usually anywhere from 10-15 mins. But like I said, it all depends on his T.I. Hopefully your boyfriend has a good one! And he'll love you writing him! As far as the whole changing thing, it all depends on the guy honestly. But my boyfriend didn't change dramatically, like you said,he grew up and matured but he was still the same guy he always was. With you being away from him, not talking to him daily, having you around, etc. will make him appreciate you so much more than he already does! And as far as your age, dont let anyone tell you anything! You know how you feel and that's all that matters! Just support your boyfriend, he'll need it. And yesss go to graduation! :) It'll mean alot to him! Any other questions, just askkk .. Ive been thru the whole BMT thing, my boyfriends in tech school right now, so dont hesitate to ask :)

You should definitely go to his graduation!!! He will be looking forward to seeing you for all the time that he is there! And dont worry... we all have those questions... I know I did! And still kinda do... but dont worry.... their personalities dont really change... i dont think so... Judging from my bfs letters, he's still the same romantic, funny, random, gentleman I fell in love with and even is still sensitive... we usually end up crying on the fone when he calls.... He's almost a 6 weeker in BMT and I am fighting and working as hard as i can so that i can go to his graduation.



The first week and a half is kinda hard... getting used to them not being around or talking on the fone... but believe ME the time does go by! Keep yourself busy! and love him and support him as much as you can! Your letters are what are gona keep him going through the journey... and if you truly love him, you will wait... remember, GOOD THINGS HAPPEN TO THOSE WHO WAIT.



Good luck girl! Message me if you need anything ;)

It shouldnt matter your age love is love. And yes go to his graduation he needs you to be there, if you dont go you will regret not going. these two months will be the hard but they will go faster as time goes by my boyfriend left on my birthday for basic and he graduates this thursday and i cannot believe how quickly the time went. dont let others discourage you just because of your age, dont worry about him changing and if he does it can always be for the better only time will tell and you will make the decision when the time comes so dont think about it now. I know how you feel about the friend situation i had no friends other than my man and this group helped alot and the friends that I did have just didnt get what we go through! just read a book, make a craft, join a club, you always have the group to vent to, thats what were here for :P