Marriage Rules?

Hi everyone. I am a proud military girlfriend, soon to be fiancee. I went to visit him in Texas and he gave me a promise ring and said once he asked my daddy for permission he will ask me officially. I am so excited because he comes home in two months. We will have two weeks together....before....he....goes....to....Japan. I found out just the other day he is going to Japan. He told me his orders were North Carolina which is four hours away from me. But he lied to us all here and said it was that, when really the day he got his orders he switched with a team mate for Japan. Japan has always been his dream, so I understand..I just am sad he won't be close. But he wants to get married and have me come live with him. Can that happen? How does it work? Anyone know? Thannks!!
-xoxo
jlw2919 jlw2919
18-21, F
3 Responses Aug 5, 2010

look at it this way though, you would only have to pay for it once and I'm sure he would pitch in some money :))

Thanks girls!! We talked and we are leaning towards getting married after he goes to his duty station. So I'd have to pay for my way? I mean, I guess I could do that. I don't know why we don't get married when he comes home...I am scared to go to Japan though. I've never been out of the country...but neither has he. Haha.

Yes youd be able to move with him if your married if they pay for u getting there does depend on a few things like if you got married to him before or after he got to his first duty station and how long his duty there is :) ill be going to germany so if u have any questions feel free to ask. :)