Beating The 'Tech School Curse' :)
So girls, all i've been reading lately are Tech school horror stories about the supposed "Tech School Curse" and I'm tired of all the negative things I've been hearing about it... Just because your man is going to tech school does not mean your relationship is doomed to fail. I know it happens, but I got it in my head that all these horrible things would go wrong before my boyfriend was even out of basic. Before my boyfriend left for tech I heard so many things that he would probably do: he'd become distant, he'd cheat on me, he would never talk to me, he would spend all of his time with his friends, he would sleep around with half the "dorm bunnies" at his ba
Well, I am now a month into tech school and I can assure you that none of these things have happened. If anything, my boyfriend and I are closer now since he has been there. we talk for 2-3 hours a night during the week and then all day on the weekends, and it is amazing, esp compared to basic! He talks to me as much as he can. I am going down in less than a month for my spring break to see him, and I am so excited! Our relationship is stronger now than it was even before he left...distance has not changed this one bit, only made us stronger. So ladies, there are some relationships that do work out at tech school! It does take trust and patience when you cannot talk to them, but time definately flies when they are in tech school compared to basic!
I know we are only a month into tech school, and I know every relationship is different, but I just wanted to encourage everyone to stay positive instead of reading all the horror stories about tech school and doubt your man before he even gets out of basic! Tech school can be a really positive experience and will be test your relationship, but if your meant to be, you'll make it! So to all those girls in basic, things do get way better in tech, and stay strong :)