I Need As Many Comments, Suggestions, Etc As Possible..i'm Ready To Give Up. : (

Stay strong but for your sanity you need to cut ties and be done.... It's hard, but in the long run you will feel better, and you can meet an amazing guy who will treat you right and dedicate the time you deserve. I was in a 4 year relationship 2 years ago, and well the guy was no prince charming, it took guts to leave but i have never been happier and 2 years later I have found my prince charming :) They do exist, don't settle for less when you know you deserve better!

Personally, I think it sounds like bad news and you don't deserve it. As a military girlfriend I'm sure you've been awesome and super supportive of him. It's messed up and immature the way he is acting. You're very young and going to start college.....live it up girl!!! Sounds like this isn't something new, so if you've been dealing with it and unhappy for some time, you need to take care of your own feelings and wants and remember that you're a great person and deserve a great guy to treat you the way you should be treated. If things are meant to work out with your boyfriend, then they will. Maybe not now, but they will if it's right. For now, focus on college and yourself :) If he wants to remain a major part of your life, he can make more of an effort and stop being a brat lol

Oh dear, I'm so sorry you are going through this! You do NOT deserve this. He only spent one day with you out of three weeks? Not okay! I think you know what you need to do. You said it yourself: he's turned into a monster. You should not be in a relationship with a monster! You deserve a guy who treasures every opportunity to see you, who treats you with respect, and makes you feel like the superfox that you are.



And that clearly is not happening with this dude. I say move on. Yes, it will be hard and painful, but ultimately it will be harder and more painful to stay with him. Move on, babe! Drop the dead weight that is this relationship and find a guy who appreciates you.



Best of luck! Be strong!

I think the two of you need to have a discussion about the parameters of your relationship. I understand that guys have urges but when they act on them it's can be a problem. No matter how young he is if he cheats on you that's it. In my opinion cheating is disrespectful. I would talk about everything with him. If it's meant to be it will be. Good Luck!

I know what you mean..my boyfriend used to be the most kind hearted person that I ever knew..after the military came into his life..he changed a lot. He is not as bad as your man seems to be..but he has very similar issues. It doesn't sound like your guy is too interested in you..which is NOT your fault..when people get on the high road they forget about the people that ground the,..and over time they do regret it. If you are not happy tell him..and if you have to leave him it will hurt no doubt..but it is a necessary pain to feel happy again in the future. With college coming up for you, you have an excellent distraction with all kinds of amazing things to divert your attention. I wish you the best of luck..don't let him disrespect you.

If you're not happy than you should do something to change it whatever that decision may entail! Even if it hurts. Best of luck to you girl! I hope you figure this out!