My boyfriend leaves for basic training in 19 days. I don't think it has really hit me yet.He and I have been together for 2 1/2 years,and have lived together for about a year. So this will be a big change and I'm not sure I'm ready for it. Although I am very proud of him,and I know it will be good for him. The part that sucks though is that we have been together for a pretty long time and we love each other, but I'm sure as you all know I can't come with him unless we get married, and we've both decided we're to young and not ready for that decision. I feel like we'll be okay. But I can't wait 6 years for him, and I know that I wanna be with him, I just don't know how to take it all in.