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Personality Change

Hey girls! I was just curious if basic training alters personalities. I know it's a physically and mentally draining 2 months. Do they come back abusive?
wxgirl1427 wxgirl1427 22-25 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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Its after the deployments you have to worry about. I'm with a military police officer with 2 tours and he's very temperamental. Its really draining the relationship. I hope everything is working out for you!

The air force is a lot about respect so I am sure if your relationship is solid you will have nothing to worry about.
Trust, love, and communication. Best three things to focus on.

I've never personally had experience with anyone coming out of BMT abusive or controlling. My guy was more out going and less shy when he was done with BMT but nothing bad as far as how he treated me. We would get into arguments while he was in tech school about him going out or not paying enough attention to me but we resolved them.

Oh ok well that's good thanks! :)

No problem! They're usually about the same as they go in.

Ok good. I like hs goofiness and ill be so sad if the military changes that!