Chantz and I met when I was little. His step mom babysat me when I was 8 and he was like 13. They moved about 3 years later to Texas. I'm now 19 and he's almost 24. At the beginning of November we reconnected on Facebook. I sent him a friend request just to check out his profile and see what he was up to, but as soon as he accepted he started messaging me. I soon found out he was in Korea for the next 7 months. We started Skyping just to talk about things, but we both knew it was going to be more than that. He got leave to come back for Thanksgiving. He made a trip to Iowa to see me and spend a couple days with me which is when we decided to make things official between us. He left and we still Skype almost everyday just to keep up the communication. He's supposed to come back from Korea in July, but leaves before August for Italy. He's going to be there for 2 years. I signed up for this website because I'm looking for a little support for the next 3 ish years. I can't leave America to be with him or anything because I have a daughter and I'm still in school. Like I said, I just need help through this and who better to get it from than people going through the same thing.