Nervous For Tech School

I feel the same.. Im not sure how I can deal with it,but hopefully it works out. When does your airman graduate from BMT?

I went through both... we made it out just fine :) something that didn't bother me, that would have probably bothered you, is that he went out a LOT. Not every weekend, but just about every other weekend. He would go out and drink with his friends, some of which were guys and the others were girls. Of course I didn't like the idea of another girl getting touchy-feely with him, but I trust him. He ended up calling me every night after he was done partying (even at 3am), and would say "I love you, goodnight" which made me trust him even more. Not that every guy would do that, but you have to trust him. And be honest with him; if it gets to a point where you're incredibly jealous, tell him. Don't accuse him of cheating or flirting; say something like "hey honey, you know I get nervous when you go out with all those girls, right? not because I don't trust you, but because I don't trust them," and he'll understand. And remember, it's not like all the girls out there are out to get your boyfriend! I was getting a little nervous about one girl talking to my boyfriend, and I ended up meeting her when I visited him and we hung out and she was actually really cool, and we got each other's numbers. So, try not to get jealous, but if you do or have any problems, be sure to communicate openly about it. Communication is the key! haha

it isn't out of line for you to be nervous but you also have to remember that he probably feels the exact same way right now. He's stuck far away from you & you have all the freedom of the world. I don't doubt that he worries about a getting hitting on you or you wanting to be with someone else. It's a struggle for both sides but you guys just have to communication and honesty & you'll be alright. (:

I am the same way! I HATE girls! lol I cant stand the thought of a girl even flirting with my man and im nowhere around! I was worried about tech school too but hes assured me everything will be ok. Its just a matter of having faith!

I'm just as nervous as you same situation :/ we just have to talk to them about it and be honest about how we feel with them and trust them. We waited weeks for them if he loves you he will be loyal, faithful, and honest.