Boyfriend Leaving To BMT March 5thSo my boyfriend of 3 years is leaving to BMT in less than a month, and today was the first day that it really hit me and I'm just completely breaking down right now.
We just went to the Wells Fargo bank so he could transfer money from there to the USAA bank, and the banker started talking about his experience in the military and all the parties he went to during tech school.. it got me so nervous for when my boyfriend goes to tech school. I trust his word that he'll be faithful and honest, but once in a while he doesn't keep a random promise to me or I found out he lied to me about something small, and it just ruins my whole trust for him. It's really hard now that I don't have full trust in him and he's gonna be going away. So basically I told him it made me nervous and that the whole party scene is gonna be all around him, so I told him I hope that he'll resist it and focus his time elsewhere or something. He took it the wrong way and thought I was blaming him, saying he WILL cheat and party and all those things. But a couple minutes later we made up and he just held me while I cried. Now he's at his briefing at the recruiter's office, and I'm home alone, overthinking about the whole thing :/
Any advice on how to get through all this the easiest way? And any suggestions for maybe a small gift before he leaves for BMT?