This has got to be the worse Valetine's Day of my life!!!!!!!! You wanna know what I got for it? Absolutely nothing!!


I waited the entire day for something! Anything from him!! I was waiting by my cell phone and house phone, I kept facebook up The entire day, I even checked my e mail and mail box, nothing. I cried so hard last night I drenched my clothes and floor. I wanna cry now but there are people around me and it is too quiet.

I think this is the end girls. I mean he is telling me there was absolutely no way for him to tell me anything for Valentines day? No way at all?? Oh God Im so hurt. I can't believe he would do not do anything for me when he tod me he supposedly loved me.


If I ever get to talk to him again and he doesn't give me a good reason as to why i didnt get sh!t for Valentine's Day than I think this relationship is over. As much as I love him I guess it wasn't enough for him to love me back.

I want to thank you all so much for helping me through this experience. I could NEVER have done it without you all. I love you girls, you were the only females friends I ever had in life and I hope you all have fantastic lives.


BreYana :'(

KiyarameruGeisha KiyarameruGeisha
18-21, F
10 Responses Feb 15, 2010

I DEFINITELY am....Thanks Nik'

Aww man, he may being going through something mentally or trying to get really focused if his parents and siblings havent even heard from him. Just pray for him.

Thanks girls. I have the feeling that something is wrong though. The for soem reason he hasn't been able to talk to anyone. I talked to all his friends, none of them have heard from him in weeks. Including facebook, he was only able to get on once because someone let him see their computer for like 3 minutes. Even his parents and siblings have heard from him.<br />
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I an still a but hurt, but I know its not just me. No one has heard from him so I can't be selfish. But there is something I need to do though. I'll explain in another story.<br />
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Aww Im sooo sorry hunni! There isnt a good excuse on why you didnt hear from him..hope things get better!

Well, I think it's most important that you talk to him at this point. It's true, he could have been really busy and forgot. There's always that possibility. But I don't know this seems fishy to me. Because you haven't spoken in like, a week, right? As busy as he is at Tech, he should at least slip you a hello via facebook. Though I know when Jeremy's busy he'll sometime not warn me and I'll just have to be patient till I hear from him and see whats up, and its usually nothing bad. And hey, I didn't get anything for Valentines day either. I haven't heard from him since the end of Beast. I don't even remember how many days that is. Probably like 2 or 3 weeks. It sucks, but I know for sure he's really really busy right now. I'm very sure if he had nothing to do and had a computer in front of him we'd be talking all the time. So maybe he is just busy, but definitely keep trying to get a hold of him. Don't ask him immediatly about it, feel out his mood, once you get a lull in the conversation, stick it in. Unless he doesn't apologize first. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you girl. This has to turn out okay for you.

oh nooo is he in tech? or basic? talk to him about it first he may have been super busy or forgot it was valentines day? lol i know i forgot a few times!

Aww im sorry girlie...<br />
Il be here for u to...if u need someone to talk to<br />
u can message me or something...<br />
Im sry that guys can be such jerks i kno how it feels...<br />
He may not of thought it was a big deal but guys dont understand<br />
how little things shatter a girls heart...<br />
guys can be soo dumb founded =/

Youre right. If its meant to happen it will, but before i make any hasty decisions, i want to talk to him about this, see if there's an actual reason for what happened.

No matter the case I will still be here for you no matter what. You can always talk to me about anything and if this guy truely turns out to be nothing like you thought he was, then it'll hurt for a minute, You pick yourself up and you keep moving forward with the help of those that care for you and want to see you succeed witll help you do. Don't worry It'll all be alright and just remember if you ever need anything i'll be here for you. You know where to find me. :) But don't give up hope just yet. You never know when he might call or send you a letter. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure things out. I agree with the ladies about. Whatever will be will be. No matter the case. Everything is gonna be alright.

its a commercialized consumerfest, popularized by greeting card companies, romanticized by the movies...if he loves you, why should he show it just one day, not every one? how does money or presents express love? it doesn't imho, it just expresses the desire to spend money expecting something in return.<br />
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love isn't give and take, it is give and give, what did you get him for valentines day?<br />
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i feel emphatically your pain...it won't last forever, and if it wasnt meant to be, then it won't be. <br />
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plenty more fish in the sea