I Miss My Airman

My fiance just left Monay to go to texas for air force boot camp. I miss him so much already. I am so worried about him writing me a letter saying it won't work or him cheating on me or him finding a girl there that he wants more than me. Am I crazy for thinking this? I am going to his graduation, but I have so much worry already. The days are going by so slowly. I don't want to cry and worry about this for eight whole weeks.

allee0718 allee0718
18-21, F
9 Responses Mar 9, 2010

I felt the same way my boyfriend left in june and it was so hard i cryed for like the first week. it got better when i started to get letters. i went to Texas for his graduation and now that he graduated we talk alot more and use the computer to talk to each other. He promised he wouldnt do anything with anyone but the idea is always in the back of my mind that there is another girl but i trust him. hes a good guy and i love him.

I felt the same way my boyfriend left in june and it was so hard i cryed for like the first week. it got better when i started to get letters. i went to Texas for his graduation and now that he graduated we talk alot more and use the computer to talk to each other. He promised he wouldnt do anything with anyone but the idea is always in the back of my mind that there is another girl but i trust him. hes a good guy and i love him.

Hi. My boyfriend just left two weeks ago and college hasnt started yet here so I find myself sitting around worrying and being sad sometimes too. Its tough but Its a comfort to know that we arent alone. I love him and miss him so much it hurts. Hang in there and things that have helped me a lot is spending time with his family, reading great books to pass time, excersizing because i know he's doing a lot of that too lol, and i'm trying to find a hobby that will pass time. Write him a lot! He may not have time to write back but he will still appreciate all your letters. try to stay positive and supportive because this is hard for him too. He needs your cheering :). Good luck and if you need to chat, don't hesitate. beachflower.2010@yahoo.com<br />
_Beth

I am happy to find out that there are other women out there who are feeling the same way I am. My finacee left this past tuesday, July 20th for basic and it seems like time just refuses to speed up at all! I start a new job next week so I know that will keep me super busy, but it is nice to know that there are still women in my same shoes, with my same thoughts. I hope to hear about how everything ended up for you and your airman :-)

Thank you guys so much. It helps hearing people say it will be alright. I was homeschooled this year and already finished so I don't really have anything to do all day. And my friends are all at school so I mostly just sit here and worry. I try not to, but I can't help it.

Hey hun ;) i know this is a hard time. but just try to remember how much he loves you.. he wouldnt have asked you to marry him if he didnt want you to be with him for the rest of his life.. just try to stay busy with stuff & i will keep my fingers crossed that time goes quickly for you while he is gone..

Thanks (: That helps a lot. I just didn't expect it to be this hard. I hate not talking to him. The suspense is killing me.

My boyfriend left two weeks ago and I felt the exact same way and worried about the exact same things. The first week is the hardest and the days go by SOOO slow, but after that it goes by faster, I promise. Just keep telling yourself that you guys are engaged for a reason, just like rebven said. And from what most of the girls have said, the distance sucks but it ends up making their relationship stronger. Just make sure you write to him everyday because he needs your support, and try to stay positive in your letters. If you have to tell him you worry about certain things, then write him but try not to be negative about it. Most likely He'll write you back and reassure you that everything is fine and you have nothing to worry about. That should ease your worries. Im still waiting for my first letter from my boyfriend, but I promise after the first week time will go by much faster! Good luck and keep writing to him, he'll love it!

itll be okay! you guys are engaged for a reason lol you're the girl he loves and wants to be with!<br />
they're seperated from the girls in bootcamp, like no relationship could happen there.<br />
aww its okay! cry if you feel like crying, but i promise itll get better just try to keep your self busy and doing stuff! <br />
you have to trust him, or talk to him and tell him this is how you feel and let him defend that lol<br />
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awww graduation is amazing :) <br />
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I wouldn't worry! he obviously loves you! :) and this experience does make things that much stronger!