My Boy And I

I'm 17 and Andy is 19. We started dating just a few weeks before he left for basic, which was January 19, 2010. We fell for each other hard and fast. I thought I was in love once before but it was nothing like this. I can honestly say I love him with every little bit of my heart and would do anything for him and luckily I know he feels the same way.
I suppose I should tell you ladies how we met and all that good stuff. :)
So, I had this physco ex boyfriend(stalked me, tried to control me, beat me up, slept with my "best friend" and every other girl in sight. He was a real TOOL) and I finally decided that if I wait for a "safe" time to leave I would be stuck in a nightmare FOREVER. So I dumped the crazy and he decided to be extremely mature and hack my myspace and facebook and delete everything. While in the process of redoing everything and adding everyone back, I came across the profile of this extremely cute guy. So of course, I added him. He accepted, of course. :) We started messaging back and forth and I just felt so comfortable talking to him. I guess he was interested because he asked if he could call me sometime. So we exchanged numbers and started texting. After a while we decided to meet up, so we meet somewhere neutral. Ha we met at our local 24 hour Raley's and sat and talked inside for hours. Both of our cheeks hurt from smiling so much because we were amazed that we had sooo much in common. Where we live there is a lot of city folk, I mean its California so what can I say, so when I saw that he was country like me I was stoked. And I am a pretty tall girl so when I saw how tall he was I was hooked. Finally we left the grocery store and sat in his warm truck and talked some more. Who knew that this the start of a beautiful relationship. Ha we've spent many nights driving around aimlessly in that silly old truck and in that stupid parking lot. But the thing that really got me was that he gave me a little peck on the cheek before I drove off. It was just so innocent and refreshing and adorable. A lot times guys try to sleep with you hella quickly so this was different, he is different. From that night forward we spent every waking moment together. We were inseparable, we became best friends. One day we were sitting on my couch and just kinda talking about us and and so I just asked, "So are you MY boy?" And he replied,"Yes!" So then I asked "Am I YOUR girl?" And he said, "Well der ska der baby!" And then we were official. :)

The night I had to drive back home without him because he shipped out in morning was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Luckily he kicked out his roomate at the hotel for a few hours. ;) That night went by too fast. He walked me to my car and we said our goodbyes and just held each other one last time. He picked me up and put me in my car, then he gave me a kiss and simply walked away.. I sat in my car crying it was too hard to watch him walk away. So I hopped out and ran after him. I gave him a big ole kiss and hug and then I felt much better. He just smiled and told me how freaking cute I was. I told him," I know, I know you tell me all the time." Haha :)

It seems likes he's been gone forever. I miss him so much it hurts. I just feel sick. But I do know he wants me to go out and live my life but its hard when part of you isn't here. He writes whenever possible, it helps. And I got my first phone call from him three tuesdays ago. I was in shock when I saw who was calling me. He wanted to hear my voice so bad. Ha. I just have to keep reminding myself that he loves what he's doing and he's living the stories he'll tell his grandkids. This is an epic time in his life and I will never hold him back from it. I will always be here supporting him.

Ha I could go on and on and on so I will stop myself here.
I love talking about him and us so I hope you've enjoyed reading a little bit about our life.

hisonia22 hisonia22
18-21, F
5 Responses Mar 12, 2010

If you find the group 'EP USAF Girlfriends' all of us are on there, so join that too! I'm Allie Cossack you can add me too. :)<br />
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Also, your story is adorable. I feel like a lot of us have stories that could be some sort of adorable romance movie plot. Maybe its just an AF thing that makes relationships more precious and special. Haha And it's so true that there aren't many online groups for this. I was so thankful when I found it. Mariah is right, too, we've all been or are going through this so no matter what feeling you go through, SOMEONE will know it. Welcome and good luck! :)

Hey girly! Well thank you I really appreciate it. I'm so happy I found this website. Its been so hard since he left and no one around me really understands, but you all do so I am excited about this. Oh and I added you on facebook.. so add me back! :)

Welcome to the group! You're story is just so adorable. Ya'll sound real cute. This made me smile all throughout reading it :) Whenever you need anyone to talk to or have any questions, don't be afraid to talk to us. We've all been through or are going through the same thing, so we know how you feel. You can add me on Facebook if you'd like, my name is Mariah Liongco. There's a bunch of us on there too, lol.

Yeah, ha is defiantly a keeper. No I don't get to go. He invited a bunch of his family and I haven't gotten to know them that well yet so he didn't want me to come and then him be trying to pay attention to everyone and me not really know them and feel kinda awkward. His going away party he felt like he neglected his friends and I because he had soo much family there and did want that to happen again. So he is going to fly me out once he gets weekend privileges in tech school. So we're both really stoked to spend a weekend together. But his best friend, who moved across the country so they haven't seen each other in forever, has a military I.D. and is going to give him some lovin for me. Haha.

awww your story is reallly cute. He seems like a really great guy. Are you going to go down there for graduation?