I Need To Vent Or Im Going To Explode!!!.....Well as you may know i have had a lot of trouble with my soldiers family... they were horrible to me and said some really nasty and hurtful things!
For some strange reason the last week or so before my soldier was deployed his family were really really nice, before this they refused to even acknowledge our engagement and made it clear they didnt like me or my daughter (she is only 3). Well during the last couple of weeks before his deployment they were really really nice, even spoke about what they were going to get us for an engagement present! I had my suspisions and i even told me soldier that i thought it was too good to be true! I WAS RIGHT!!!!
Today i spoke to my soldiers mum as i was supposed to be going to his family's house for dinner tonight but she told me that her and his family were p*#^d off because i had spoken to him more than what they had!!! AAARRRRGGGHHHH How is that my fault????
She said that she didnt think it was fair because she loves him "unconditionally" and i dont! WTF
She said that his younger brother (13) and sister (16) are angry because he had spoken to my daughter (3) and only spoken to them once!!!!
My daughter is really confused at the moment about what is going on and keeps asking if he is gone or if he is ever coming back! Every man that has been in her life (except my dad) has walked away from her and she needed to hear from him that he is coming back home to us!!
I cant believe im in the bad books again already, he hasnt even been gone a week yet!!!
I suppose i expected it to happen but i cant believe it happened so quickly!!! IM SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MAD and my soldier is hopefully calling me tonight and i dont know if i should mention anything to him... i know he is going to ask why i didnt go to his parents house for dinner!
I would REALLY appreciate some advice ladies......