Might Be Thinking To Much!

Okay so i was talking to my amazing boyfriend today on yahoo IM and out of the blue
sam asked me what my ring size was ... i asked him what for and he just asked me again "whats your ring size"
so i told him 5 1/2 and he just put "okay [with a big happy face] ahhh what do yall think that means
i mean i dont want to get my hopes up but i really hope its what i want it to be!!!! i can't stop thinking about it
ohhh and then he said "babe i really want you to move to georgia when i get back " and that he didnt want to wait till
he's out of the army! but the only thing stopping me from moving is i dont see how that would work i mean i would move up there in
a heart beat.. but i know we cant live together unless we are married and idk if he is really going to ask me i guess i just have to wait and see
and the funny thing is when we were talking about me moving to georgia to be with him until he is out of the army
again out of the blue he puts "Chrisie Vasquez Gomez"  i told him i wouldnt keep my last name that i would just take
his name and he got really happy about that ahhh ... ladies i have so much on my mind but i really do hope i
am thinking all the right thoughts i really really do i want to spend my life with this guy! the only bad thing about this is when
i told my older sister about sam asking me for my ring size she got real blahh about it
because her boyfriend asked her to marry him 3 months ago..... i dont want to ruin her moment i mean he hasnt asked me anything yet
i shouldnt of said anything in the first place i am just really happy about it all!
for now i guess i am going to just hope for the best!
 
chrisie*
SpcGomez8409 SpcGomez8409
18-21, F
9 Responses Jul 13, 2010

No not yet, but funny you ask me that. The other day Sam asked me how much my sisters fiance paid for her ring, i told him i didn't know, and he was like ohhhh okay, so you don't know how much he spent. when i asked him why he wanted to know he just told me " just wondering." and that was it. Then today we were talking about him coming home next month :D<br />
and he was like like babe i really can't wait to make you my wife! <br />
and then he said my whole name with his last name at the end! i told him that i want nothing more then <br />
to take his last name, and thats when he said "that day might come sooner then you think." i was like what do you mean by that? and he acted like he didnt know what i was talking about. he just smiled and told me that he loves me and that he was going to sleep. lol i dont want to put my hopes up but who knows!!! i guess i will just have to wait and see :)

So, did you ever get a ring?

thank you ladies for all the comments <br />
i love to hear what yall think and all of yalls stories <br />
i just cant wait for the day to come where <br />
i am in yalls shoes!<br />
all i can do is wait and see <br />
and thats okay by me :)

How exciting!!! Definitely let yourself be excited, but I agree with the other girls who reminded you not to be disappointed if it turns out to be a promise ring or just a no-reason gift. Obviously he is planning on doing something very sweet for you, and isn't that what matters?? But gosh its fun to day dream!<br />
My man and I went ring shopping for the 1st time last month, and now thats all I can think about ;)

That sounds super exciting girly! :) Haha. I think your thinking the right thing. It is either that or a promise ring is what I am guessing!!! haha. And there is nothing wrong with day dreaming. I actually find your story kind of funny because today out of absolutely no where my boyfriend mentioned marriage!!! haha. Message me if you ever need to talk. :)

I agree with liveandlovelife. Don't expect too much and you will always be surprised!! lol My soldier said he was going to propose before he left, so he took me to pick out a ring , any ring I wanted he said, so I did and it wasn't something he could afford before he left, so I said no big deal I will just pick out a less expensive one and he said no way, we will just wait until he gets home to get the ring and get engaged. Well to me it wasn't about the ring it was about being engaged to him so I was diappointed that we were not going to get engaged before he left, but he insisted that I get the ring I want. Well it turns out that we didn't get engaged before he left but we did get married! lol It was spur of the moment and simple but being able to call him my husband is so much better than any ring!! Good luck and congrats on whatever it is that he has up his sleeve! :)

I agree with liveandlovelife. Don't expect too much and you will always be surprised!! lol My soldier said he was going to propose before he left, so he took me to pick out a ring , any ring I wanted he said, so I did and it wasn't something he could afford before he left, so I said no big deal I will just pick out a less expensive one and he said no way, we will just wait until he gets home to get the ring and get engaged. Well to me it wasn't about the ring it was about being engaged to him so I was diappointed that we were not going to get engaged before he left, but he insisted that I get the ring I want. Well it turns out that we didn't get engaged before he left but we did get married! lol It was spur of the moment and simple but being able to call him my husband is so much better than any ring!! Good luck and congrats on whatever it is that he has up his sleeve! :)

Some guys just buy the ring they choose and the standard size for girls is usually a 7. My hubby bought me my 1st ring (straight from the store) when her proposed and it was a 7. The one we picked out together (we decided we wanted white gold instead of gold....so we just bought new rings...I still wear my old one sometimes) it was a 7 in the store so we bought that one but ended up having to special order it because they couldn't size my without messing it up. LOL! That might be why it was the wrong size after telling him numerous times what your ring size was. I am a 5(1/2) so it was a BIG difference. I am excited for you! Being with a soldier is a BIG honor and it may not always be easy but IT IS ALWAYS WORTH IT! Good Luck...if you ever wanna talk...I am here!

aww!!! yay! what i found out that helps me in those situation is to expect a little bit less, like in this case, a promise ring. when it does all happen, it makes it all better.<br />
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and when my guy asked me for my ring sized i told him 6. He then asked me like 2 more times and still ended up getting the wrong size -_-U. that and when he proposed (he came to visit me for a weekend at my school) he forgot the ring back in his room in arizona (i was in florida) and had to by me a second one. lol<br />
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i hope you guys get a cute moment too!!!!! yay!!! lol