Having A Hard Time

Its been about two weeks since he left again after his r and r. I don't remember it being soooo hard last time. I keep thinking about how much I miss him. It does not help that I get to talk to him way less than I did the first half of deployment. I know plenty of you do not even get to talk to you boy other than mail, so I am sorry if I sound like I am complaining. I just want school to start again so I am busy all the time and don't have enough time to think about it. Well I hope that all you are doing better than me. I know it will get better, just needed to get it off my chest.
Den4ce Den4ce
22-25, F
2 Responses Jul 27, 2010

He is currently somewhere in Kuwait. Basically I tend to surround myself with friends and family, along with things to do whenever I get down. Sometimes I just need a cry, which helps release the pressure I feel. Right now I am trying to get ready for grad school. I think that from your stories that your husband is going to be deploying soon? The best thing to do is to stay busy, especially right after they leave. I know some girls pick up hobbies, for me I was lucky since I was busy with school, I came home and had two jobs to work, and going to be uber busy with grad school. Also a good line to know is no news is good news. I know that sounds weird, but whenever you have not talked to him for awhile and start to worry, know that you would have heard already if something was wrong. It seems backwards, and I know my mind doubts EVERYTHING, but its something to repeat over and over again when you are worried. If you have any other questions message me. I hope this helps. Good luck!<br />
Oh, and another thing, talking to girls on here, or other military wives/gfs/etc helps whenever you are down. Sometimes civilian girlfriends dont understand, not their fault they just have never gone through this. I know that just getting a you go girl sometimes helps cheer me up. Anyways good luck and best wishes

Where is your soldier currently deployed at? And how are you staying positive about everything?