Not Sure How To Feel About This

I just really need to vent and get this off my mind,Hopefully we can reach a happy medium on this. For the last few months DB has been back and forth on the issue of changing Units and MOS's. We are both unsure as to when it would be happening. There are Pros and Cons to both though. I love him and im glad we are together. The unit he is in now isnt really promoting anybody and play favorites alot. He has been there for about 4 years and no promotion. There is another unit up around Austin or San Antonio that is looking for piliots for another helicopter,but with this new unit comes promotions and possibly a deployment way sooner then the original unit. I love him and I want to be with him,I know he wants to advance in the National Guard and get promoted etc. I just feel like after spending all this time together and being with eachother making future plans, I dont want to have to be away from him or us to be apart,yet i dont want to keep form something that could benefit him either KWIM? He is still thinking about this whole thing,and nothing is final yet,but i know eventually a descision will be made. he wants to switch units and go up there and drill and see how it goes frist before making a final descison. The idea of us being apart from eachother for months and then a possible deployment with the new unit and mos, worries me. He is really unsure what he wants to do at this time. I want him to try and hold things off untill we get married if possible,but if not we could end being long distance.I dont want to stop him from doing what he can to progress in his career. Him and I both just have alot of thinking and talking to do on this matter. I know in love you have to make scarifices,but the idea of me being here and him there has me comptemplative and torn i guess you could say.

Anyone else ever been in this situation?


Thanks for reading.
Hooahkindoflove Hooahkindoflove
22-25, F
Aug 9, 2010