Why Cant Gays Be Treated The Same As Everyone Else Does In The Army Or Military
Well I met my boyfriend about five years ago and he's in the Army and I really dont like how we are treated cause we are gay. He's been in the military for awhile now about 5 yearsare more and he loves it but doesnt love the fact he has to keep me a secert or hide the fact who he is. I just want alittle addvice on what maybe we could do it makes our relationship alittle harder and I need help. I wish that I could get the same benifits that a wife of the military does. I wish I could go out in to the public and to the events with him and not have a problem but I have to stay home and wait for my love to come home from his other family AKA the ARMY. My partner is deployed right now and its hard because I cant get help from wifes and spouses of my partners company or the Army. And the only thing I get to have from him right now is phone calls because he dont want to be caught or get into trouble. So I dont get to see pictures of him or even get to webcam with my love. I just was wondering if anyone has any way to maybe help me or pointers on what I could do. Theres alot more problems with the Army and how its having an effect on our relationship but dont need to trouble anyone with any of my problems. I know their are alot of people who dont agree with homosexuality or gays but I know their are alot of you special and wonderful people out their that care and who can compare any problems as being an military spouse. I just want good feed back I dont need any put downs are hurtful slang or stuff said. I love reading alot of your stories it makes me think about the things I have went threw and helps me alot. I just want to give a big thanks to all the Soldiers out their and to the Spouses and family and friends.