How I Became A Soldier's Significant Other!!

I am 23 years old, I was a single mom until I met my soldier. I wasn't really looking for a relationship and neither was he. We actually ran into each other at a club...he was babysitting some of his drunk friends and I was doing the same...we were both pretty bored considering the club scene is not really our thing. We started a casual conversation while laughing at our friends making fools of themselves in a drunken state of mind. One topic led to another topic which led to another. I could tell right off he wasn't like most single military guys I had met. I was instantly attracted to him. By the end of the night I just had to know more about him. So I done something that I never do. I gave him my number. The next morning I checked my phone and he had text me asking if we all made it home safely. I ended up hanging out with him that night too. Eventually we were seeing each other everyday. It's over a month later and we have fallen in love. He has new orders to Ft Bragg and has asked me and my son to move in with him. I honestly can't picture letting him leave without me. I know it's fast and sudden, but I have fallen head over heals in love with him. He treats me like a Queen and he adores my son. If you ran into us in public and didn't know any difference we would look like the perfect little family. I can't count the number of times we have been told OUR son is so adorable...or how many times someone has referred to me as his WIFE! I am positive I have found my soulmate...things just click with us and i have never had that before it's so great to be in a relationship that you don't have to force or to try to make it something it's not....He may not be perfect and god knows I am not perfect, but we are perfect each other!! That's how I became a Soldier's Significant Other!!!
inluvwithasoldier inluvwithasoldier
22-25, F
4 Responses May 12, 2011

awwwwwwww your story made me cry i love it !!! its never too soon for love ........

Thank you guys for all the good lucks, I think I am going to need it...I am so nervous about moving away. I have lived in the same area all my life, I am uprooting mhy whole life and my son's whole life to be with this man. I love him with everything I have and I know the move is going to be worth it, but it scares the living hell out of me!! Any pointers on packing up and moving away from everyone you know and love would be great. I also know nothing about military lifestyles considering this my first serious relationship with a any advice on that would be great too!

Sometimes love finds you. My guy is my best friend's brother. We've known each other for 5 years and it wasn't until this past christmas that we realized we were perfect for each other and took our friendship to a higher level. Now that we've fallen in love, there's no way I'd ever trade him in. Grab it by the horns, and take the ride. It's worth it. Good luck!!!

awww super cute...i met my soldier at a gas station on dec 21 09....and we got together on jan 29 2010 & i have been together ever since then. God sent us to eachother.