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I Am a United States Army Girlfriend

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By: Rootbeerchick
Written on July 14th, 2011
Alright, ive been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months and he's in ft benning and I miss him like crazy!!!! I don't care if we haven't been dating that long, I love him. Plain and simple. We don't tell each other that and he doesn't know I love him but I do. He cares about me but I don't know if it's that deep yet. He's about to get out in a few weeks and he can only come home for a couple of days. He is so stressed about everything and his last letter really scared me. He just talked about how hard it's gonna be to have this relationship but he told me not to freak out about it and we would talk when he got back. He is getting stationed in Seattle and is moving there right after basic. I want to go with him so bad but he doesn't want to ask me to stop everythin for him. How do I let him know I would go with him in a heartbeat? How do I make this relationship work? Is this army thing just making him nervous? What do I do!
By: Rootbeerchick
Age: 18-21
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    jonnysgirl94
    jonnysgirl94

    The very first thing you should do is tell him that you love him. And if you want to then tell him that you want to go with him. as for the basic thing. yes it does make them. Jonathan and i went through the exact same thing when he was going from basic to AIT he got stationed in missouri and i was in fayettville, NC its very difficult but it will work out. samantha and chay are rigth. just tell him. your strong girl. keep your head up, your only going to get stronger. :)

    Jul 15, 2011
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    Chaylani
    Chaylani

    SamanthaAndDillon said it short and sweet! let him know, girl!

    & what does he tihnk he's making you stop?

    reassure him that you are one of the toughest girls he'll meet.

    you can keep going with anything you really want to, especially being with him.

    he's just trying to look out for you too, that's definitely a blessing

    praying for you!

    head up, you're strong, and will grow to be even stronger:)

    Jul 14, 2011
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    SamanthaAndDillon
    SamanthaAndDillon

    you need to tell him exactly how you feel! otherwise, how else will he know what to think?? good luck!

    Jul 14, 2011
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    HISsweethear1709
    HISsweethear1709

    First tell him you love him and you would do anything to make this work. Im scared about the same thing. Im 3 years younger then my bf. So i really cant go with him. Tell him how you feel and see what he says. Im sure he will understand and have a reasonable answer for you. Good luck! Hope everything works out

    Jul 14, 2011
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