Will Our Relationship Get Stronger?
So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, he left 6 days ago for basic training, I didn't know it was going to hurt this bad until it actually hit me. I'm so happy when I'm with him, I tell him I love him about every 10 seconds when we are together and I mean if every time. I have a crazy phobia, that when something scares me or worries me I don't stop thinking about it and negative thoughts won't leave my mind. I haven't got to talk to him in a few days, and where we can't see each other or talk to each other I'm really scared that it's just going to make us drift away from each other, I love him I really do. More than anything. But I feel that not being able to talk to him, and I'm so used to talking to him everyday and seeing him everyday, that it'll just make us feel distant and I'm scared it won't be the same as it was before he left. I have two friends that have a boyfriend in the army and they both said they felt the same way but it got better and it made them stronger. Is this true? How can I stop worrying about this?