Dont Know What To Do

My bf and I have been together for a year and a half, we were engaged but we realized it was too soon so we decided to drop our engagement. But lately he has been acting weird to the point where he ignores me. Well i got tired of it because i was not fixing to tolerate that kind of behavior so i told him goodbye but we haven't had that conversation to decide how were going to end up either together or not. Everytime i tell him that we need to talk about the situation, he runs away like if he's scared. Even though around Sept he fess up saying that he was scared of losing me. My heart tells me to hang on but i don't like the way he ignores me. What should i do? Should i move on? Please help. Thanks for the advice ladies
ArmySPCGirlfriend ArmySPCGirlfriend
18-21, F
1 Response Nov 28, 2012

I agree with Mirellaa, but I also think he just needs time. I have also been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half and sometimes, he just shuts me out. I can't tell you why. But eventually he comes around. It's usually because he has something on his mind, like deployment or his friends that he has lost. I know I can't tell you what's going through your boyfriend's mind but I can tell you, that men handle things differently, and quite frankly, that can be so annoying. You should tell him that you need to talk if he really is afraid of losing you, but you should also give him a little space and wait until he's ready to completely tell you what's on his mind. I hope this helps :)

thank you for your advice. it does help and makes sense. I hope that everything goes well and all. I really love him. I know Japan isn't a deployment but he is going there for a new exercise and im just afraid that he'll forget about me.

I don't think he could ever forget about you. Once you love someone, there will always be a piece of their heart that you to belong in.

true. thanks for being there, if you ever need anything don't hesitate to come at me ok? (:

I'll keep that in mind :)

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