Upset.... Is It All In My Head? Is He Cheating? Or Am I Over Thinking This?!!!so my boyfriend just got back from afghanistan a few days ago.. we have been texting but im starting to get worried he is messing with other girls..or maybe he just needs time to ajust.. i dont know on his facebook there is a pic of him and some girl from when he got home at this welcome home thing they had for the guys when i asked who it was he said it was one of his buddies sister.. maybe it just pissed me off because some other chick was holding on to my man that i havent got to see in over 7 months or im scared he is lying. friday night he stopped texting me at 8 aclock at night he is 21 and he didnt text me till today at 1130am i figured he went out but he said he was sleepiing.. i was just over to his grandmothers and she said they had went to some concert i would have been less mad about it if he would have just told me the truth if he lied about that what else is he lying about why did he feel the need to lie.... i have this upset feeling in my gut that something isnt right... he will be home on leave in a week but it feels like things are already getting bad. maybe im just thinking to much into this but it has really upset me that he hasnt talk to me much and is lying! i feel like he is cheating on me but i cant prove anything and i dont wanna acusse him and it be nothing!!!!!! when he texts me he is really short and doesnt tell me he loves me anymore.. right now he said he is out riding four wheelers with his friends.. thats cool, you can do that but you cant call me at night and talk to me! im not sure what is going on with him and it has me really upset, it has me going crazy cause i feel like im making it out to be way worse then what it really is... but i just know something is wrong and he is soo far away from me and i dont wanna push him away with an arguement when he is only gonna be home in aa week!! when he was in afghanistan he always wanted to talk to me and now its a different storyy and im getting scared!!! i cant stand the thought of loosing him!!
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southernbell52 18-21, F 13 Responses 1 Dec 8, 2012