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I Am a United States Army Girlfriend

Help!:(

By: Army9
Written on February 9th, 2013
By: Army9
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • AleeMeagan

    Aw..I completely understand. I'm going through the exact same thing. It really does suck. We just need to stay busy. And spend time with supportive people. Job is a great idea, of course. But also having fun will make you both happy because he certainly wouldn't want you to be all depressed and hermit crab. Lol in fact I need to get out myself. Do something you really enjoy.

    Feb 10
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  • armygf101312

    Is he doing field or some type of training or deployed? (Just wondering). Keeping busy is always good! Its tough I know :/ My soldier did training last month and for 6 days no talking on the phone and he only texted a couple times in the morning and at night which I should feel lucky for but it felt like we weren't talking period. And for me too, I either work or go to school but that still doesn't always keep me busy enough. But I find other ways to release my feelings of either sadness, anger, depression, whatever I may had been feeling that day by writing him letters or texts, telling him how my day went, what had gone on, just random things usually. None of my friends or family understand either and it sucks but I just remind myself that I will talk to him again soon enough and that I will also see him. Right now I'm counting down the days until I see him again here soon. I also listen to music 24/7 and try hanging with friends if possible, they may not understand but at times it can be a good thing because for that time, you can at least get your mind off of it for a little bit and just relax. Just stay strong and soon enough you'll hear from him!! (:

    Feb 10
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    • Army9

      Hes in basic right now! Thanks for the advice.. I just had a horrible day that day and was missing him a lot! Its been hard not knowing what hes up to or how his day went.. hell its just been hard not getting a good morning text but his first letter came in yesterday so now I'm super excited to get another:) the letter really helped me get through my day! Thanks again for your advice and I hope your doing well through your experience too:)

      Feb 13
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