Should I Be Worried?
I need some advice on something. I find it hard to ask advice from friends because they really can't relate. Anyway my boyfriend and I have been together over a year now. He is currently stationed at a base in another state so we're doing the long distance thing. It's working wonderfully. We are very much in love and beginning to plan a future together. Well before I met him he was friends with a married couple that lived on the same base. His friend *Bill got deployed. While Bill was deployed my boyfriend became good friend's with Bill's wife. Unfortunately, Bill was killed while deployed. My bf told Bill's wife that he would be there for her whenever she needed. Well, they're starting to hang out more and more and recently he spent the night at her house talking to her and recently she asked him to come babysit with her. He explains that he feels weird, and he's just doing it because he promised her. I know he loves me and he always tells me everything that he does. I trust him immensely and I know he's not cheating. I feel so sad for this woman because she lost her husband and I can't even imagine losing my bf, however I am experiencing a lot of jealousy because she is spending time with him and he is able to be there for her, while he cannot be here for me at all times and spend time with me due to the distance. I feel like I'm being completely irrational, which I am. It's so dumb to be jealous of somebody who just lost their name tag. Is there anybody that can relate to me or make me feel better?! Please give me your honest opinion about this.