I Am a New "CONFUSED" Army Girlfriend!

OKAY,WELL I AM NEW TO THIS SO IM WONDERING IF YAW CAN HELP ME OUT..ME AND MY BOYFRIEND MEET AT A CLUB ONE NIGHT AND I DIDNT KNOW HE WAS IN THE ARMY HE TOLD ME A COUPLE DAYS LATER THAT HE WAS AND THAT HE WUD BE LEAVING SOON SO WE DECIDED TO START A RELATIONSHIP HONESTLY THAT WE DIDNT THINK WOULD WORK WELL WE IN THE LONG DISTANCE THING FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS AND I STARTED TO GET VERY LONELY AND SCARED SO I TOOK SOME SPACE BUT HE CAME HOME AND WE BOTH DID SOME THANGS THAT MADE US NOT TRUST EACHOTHER BUT WE SAID WE WAS GOING TO WORK THROUGH THEM AND MAKE IT WORK SO BASICALLY I CAME BACK TO HIM FALLING INLOVE WITH HIM MORE AND MORE EACH DAY NOW HE'S BACK IN WASHINGTON IM IN ALABAMA FOR A MINUTE IT WAS ALL GOING GOOD I  GOTTA ADMITT I TEND TO NAG HIM ALOT CUS I HAVE TRUST ISSUES AND HE SAID HE WAS TIRED OF IT BUT WE SAID WE WAS GOIN TO WORK THROUGH IT WELL NOW ITS GOIN ON TWO WEEKS WE HAVE BEEN BROKE UP WE HAVENT TALKED OR NOTHING REALLY I TALKED TO HIM LIKE ONCE AND HE SAID HE NEEDED SOMETIME TO HIMSELF WE'VE BEEN TOGETHA FOR 6MONTHS NOW AND WE LOVE EACHOTHER BUT THE TIME TO HISSELF IS HE TRYIN TO MOVE ON OR WILL HE COME BACK TO ME?? IM GOIN CRAZY YAW GOT SOME OPINIONS!!!??? 

luvmysoilder50 luvmysoilder50
18-21
2 Responses Feb 12, 2009

good luck, being an army girlfriend, wife whatever means distance, and being put on the back burner sometimes, because he is now Government property and being a solider will always come first before being a boyfriend, husband, whatever. I feel your pain, good luck if its meant to be, it will be

Yeah broken hearts really suck, no they really suck. But I hear people using this saying all the time, "It is better to love, then not to love at all!"<br />
Girl each open wound, each bump in the road will make you stronger. It is really hard to make a relationship work, especially if you two already have some issues you have done onto each other.<br />
He has all the power right now, the best thing is to keep busy and over time you won't feel like your dying anymore. If he ever comes back, this is when you have to look your best and be confident, not cocky there a difference. People are attracted to people that have sexy confidences, we are drawn to them. Then at least when he see you, he will probably be kicking himself that he let you go. If you are suppose to be together then it will happen. But a relationship takes two, both side need to put effort into the relationship equally, if not the relationship won't hold up on its own. Good Luck and happy healing girl!<br />
Your blog buddy, Cadence