WE Are Doin Soo Much Better

WELL ON VALENTINES DAY I TALKED TO MY SOLDIER AND OFCOURSE I TOL YOU ALL THAT WE'VE BEEN BROKE UP BUT ON SAT WE DECIDED THAT WE WE'RE GOING TO START BACK TALKIN AND TAKIN IT SLOW BACK INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP AND ITS BEEN GOING GOOD FOR THE PASS 3 DAYS WELL AWHILE BACK WE WERE TALKIN ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ME MOVING WITH HIM BUT IM A FRESHMEN IN COLLEGE AND HE'S ONLY DOING 5 YEARS IN THE ARMY SO HE HAS LIKE 4 MORE TO GO BUT AS OF NOW IM WANTIN TO SAY FORGET  COLLEGE CUS I CANT FOCUS FROM WANTIN TO BE WIT HIM EVERYDAY..BUT WUD I BE MAKIN A WRONG DECISION IF I WE'RE TO QUIT SCHOOL FOR A WHILE TO GET MARRIED AND BE WITH HIM OR WHAT????

luvmysoilder50 luvmysoilder50
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4 Responses Feb 16, 2009

I am also in college and and dating a soldier. I decided that it would be best for me and him if I had my college degree and then we can get married. I am only a year away from graduating though so it isn't that far away. I agree with the first comment in that this is totally your choice, but you should consider how important a college degree is to you and how serious you are about being with this guy, I know the distance sucks, but think of it this way, if you can make it through this, you can make it through anything. <br />
Hope I helped.

I dont think you should just up n quit but i think that if you got married and just kept going to school whereever he lives would be a good idea. then you could keep your mind off of him so much but you would also be his wife and be making a life for you and him and your children in the future!!

"ON SAT WE DECIDED THAT WE WE'RE GOING TO START BACK TALKIN AND TAKIN IT SLOW BACK INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP"<br />
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"BUT AS OF NOW IM WANTIN TO SAY FORGET COLLEGE CUS I CANT FOCUS FROM WANTIN TO BE WIT HIM EVERYDAY"<br />
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These two sentences DO NOT go together! The question isn't about whether its right or wrong to quit school to be with your soldier, its about what's right in your individual relationship right now. And it's pretty clear that what you guys need now is to go slow...so go slow for a year or so and then decide if dropping out of school is a smart choice...<br />
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good luck!

this is totally just my opinion but personally i think you should continue with your education..i mean it's really great that you guys are getting back together :) but at the same time, since you've broken up before, it might be smart to give it some time before making any drastic decisions like that. i know its SOOO hard to focus on school when you're missing your soldier- i am right there with you on that one- but think about if you left school to go be with him and then things didn't work out- it might make things way more difficult for you. just my opinion tho :) congrats on getting back together!!