Can't Stand the Lack of Communication...

 So he has been  home, back on American soil, and I've talked to him once since I saw him last 3 weeks ago. I have gotten a couple very short emails, but they only talk about how they are going to move him from one base to the next. I find it extremely hard to believe that he wouldn't be able to make a quick phone call to let me know all is alright, or even what state his is in. There are so many questions I need him to answer for me. Something is making me feel like he is giving up on us, and in return I want to give up as well. As though I am wasting my time waiting for him. I know deep down that I'm just sitting on a pitty pot. I wish wish he would throw me a bone....

emo5679 emo5679
31-35, F
3 Responses Mar 11, 2009

Well it's been 4 weeks since my last phone call from him and 1 1/2 weeks since he emailed last...I'm really starting to think that he is gone...There were so many things I didn't know about him and was waiting to find out once he got home...After having a few drinks with the girls last night..it dawned on me that he might be spending his leave with someone else...This is nuts....

Nope doesn't have a cell phone..they are moving him around to much for me to send it to him....And I've emailed everyday...I know...its just a pity pot...I'm going to dinner tonight to have some wine and vent to friends...thanks girls....

You should send him a text or email or something asking whats going on. He's probably really busy and really stressed, but thats not a reason for him not to have called you yet. Does he not have a cellphone? If he does, take the initiative and call him first! <br />
Keep your chin up girl :] i know its frustrating, but i think that your thinking too much. in all honesty, guys are clueless. It probably hasnt even occurred to him that your feeling this way. Especially if hes busy moving here and there and trying to adjust to all this change.