I Miss Him So Much....

Its almost been 3 weeks....I havent gotten a letter or a phone call.

I talked to him when he was in reception....and i got his mailing address...but once he got to basic i havent heard from him at all....

I have gotten one letter and 2 once minute phone calls.....

its been sooo long.....

He got to call his mom last week but he couldnt talk about anything personal....the sargent was right next to him

i dont even know if knows we are having a girl....

i just wanna know if he has gotten my letters....i miss him so much.....i wish that i could just get a letter.....3 weeks is too long....i dont get it....

im going crazy....

KingsQueen KingsQueen
18-21, F
2 Responses Mar 13, 2009

STAY STRONG AND HANG IN THERE.<br />
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each place is different and each DS is different. he is in the first phase and they have no freedom. just stay strong & dont wry bc u know hes thinking of you and his little child = ) hes so excited that your going to have a family together. we are all here for you..your letters are probably getting there but the DS is probably holding them or something but dont worry, he will than get them all at once and be so happy! he loves you and remember hes doing this for u and the baby to have a great life together.. you will be with him soon. hang in there girl. <br />
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plus dont stress, its not good for your little girl & u dnt want ne complications with t hat!<br />
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--keep us updated. stay strong. we are here!

I know that its hard girl, just hang in there.<br />
That letter WILL come, and hes just as anxious to hear from you as you are from him. Just because he doesnt write back immediantly doesnt mean you cant keep writing him. I never realized how much my letters motivated and kept my soldier going until after he graduated. <br />
The first month or so of BCT, they barely even let the soldier sleep .They have to learn to work together, and they get their personal time taken away a lot becuase of stupid **** (they have an hour or so to themselves before bed to clean, iron, shine shoes, wash clothes, clean guns, and write letters)<br />
I know its hard but all you can really do is wait. Im sure hes gonna write you the first chance he gets